We always get in life a reflection of what we believe we deserve. And if we believe that we don't deserve money, love, or success, then we will actually block it out of our life. I believe it will change your life because it will help you to feel worthier so that you have money, love, and success coming after you. Today, I'm going to be sharing with you how you can feel 100% worthy, whole and complete of having money, love, and success in your life.
I'll tell you right now that I used to believe I wasn't worthy of any of those. I'll get into the reasoning behind it and a little bit, and there's a little play on words, their reasoning. Because when we believe that we're not worthy of holding complete of money, lover success, then we continuously block it out of our life.
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This was something that I experienced for years. Wondering, thinking maybe I'm just not supposed to be abundant in life. Thinking. Why is it so hard? Let me show you this, though as well. This is our old self. Think of this as the self that maybe doesn't feel worthy, is not abundant, is conditioned by past experience. The version of us that is in the autopilot mind thinking the same thoughts every day. It has the pain of the past kind of wearing it on our back, and that's all based on the meaning we give to our past experience and the meaning we give to who we are now.
We are currently thinking, acting, and feeling equal to this version of us. Here's what makes manifestation so much easier to understand. If we want to create our dream reality, all we have to do is imagine the best version of us that feels worthy, that is bold. Imagine that version of us, and then what we must do is simply be that version of us. This seems so simple, and it's like, well, it's not that easy, and the only reason it's not easy is that we've been believing and bought into this one for so long. We've believed that an identified believing we are the past. We are conditioned; we are in the autopilot mind. We are not abundant. We are not worthy. This is all been based on just autopilot.
When we can start to learn that we can become less of this and become more of this. This is how we experience amazing things in our life. If you've read the works, Neville Goddard, even Joe Dispenza, feeling the emotion now allows you to perceive the reality you want. If we're not feeling worthy, we will get a reality that shows us that we are equal to not being worthy. Which means people may treat you like you're not worthy. You may go to groups of people and feel like you're not enough, or you have to kind of people pleaser kind of agree with people in order to be worthy. You might feel that when it comes to money that you don't have enough of it, and you don't feel worthy of it, and that's your reality. All reality is as a reflection of what we believe we deserve and who we believe we are.
So, this blog is going to show you how to redo those reasoning, the way that you see yourself so that you can then experience more of the love and abundance that is in your life. Here's the other thing that I wanted to share that you could say yes, I just have to feel, I just have to feel worthy. If I feel worthy, then I attract more love into my life. But this is how it really works. The way that it really works is we first have a belief, a belief about who we are. Then that belief causes us to have a feeling, and then that feeling causes us to think thoughts consistent to the feeling that is our state of being. If we're in a certain state, we think certain thoughts and then our thoughts are equal to that feeling. Then those thoughts lead to us saying, Hey, maybe I'm going to take a certain type of action.
Maybe I'm not going to go after my dreams because I don't feel worthy. Maybe I'm not going to go talk to that guy or girl over there because I don't feel worthy. Then that action or non-action then leads to a result which then fuels that same belief. For example, the most common limiting belief that there is is the belief I'm not enough. And if we believe I'm not enough, then we will feel like we're not enough. We will feel inadequate insecurity. From there, we then think thoughts that are similar to that, I'm not enough, I'm not secure, and then we will take action or the non-action based on that end result, and it becomes a perpetual cycle. This isn't about just looking at the feeling, it's saying, well, I'm going to feel worthy. We have to first off, become aware of the belief.
The belief is the reasoning. Let me share with you a couple of stories about how I went through this. Even more recently, I've become aware of certain beliefs and meanings that I gave to things in the past. For example, I had a couple of root experiences. Am I enough? Am I worthy? When we say am I worthy, we're really saying, am I enough? What happened was, I thought that I wasn't enough because of past experience. That's where most people get caught up. Most people are caught in the knots of their past, believing that their past is who they are identified with past experience thinking; this is who I am. If I wasn't worthy in the past and how am I ever going to be worthy in the future. But the part here that's important to understand is the identity, the identification.
For example, when we look at this, I found certain root experiences. We all have route experiences of things that have happened in the past where we then gave things, meaning that then became on autopilot, and those things that were then based on that meaning then send to run themselves out in subconscious ways. For example, I had this one called clown boys. What I wrote right here, I had this one experience with my, uh, I became aware of this actually while deep into meditation. Actually, I kind of even remembered it consciously, but I forgot about it because sometimes in the business of life, you forget about certain memories. I asked myself, why don't I feel worthy? Why do I feel such a desire to prove myself to people, and why do I feel inadequate, insecure? I remembered this one memory that I had back when I was younger.
My dad didn't mean this. I love my dad, dearly. However, at the time he was probably trying to, he probably had his own reasons for doing this, and when I was about nine, 10 years old, I did this weird thing with my tongue or what I would do is I would look right the sides of my mouth. I don't know why I did it. I'm sure there's, you look up Louise hay or something, you could hear your life. There's a thing about it. But I was doing that. I was looking at the sides of my mouth, and what happened was then it caused a rash that would go ride around my mouth where then it would turn red, and then it looked like I had this white, this red thing going around my mouth. I remember that I was very insecure of it, and my dad noticed it, and I'm sure my dad had good intentions at some level about this.
My dad's a very caring person, but he may be just wasn't aware in this moment when we were in a car, and I was with him, and I think it was also with the influence of my ex stepmom who may have told them like, you need to tell them to stop doing that or something like that. That's just the feeling I have. But he was saying like, why you keep doing this thing? Like it's going to keep the rash there. That's why a lot of times you'll notice that a lot of people that maybe don't have much, they don't want to connect to their spirituality. Sometimes it's because their relationship with their parents may have reflected back something to them, and therefore that's how they'd been viewed. Reality spirituality, the way the world works. In that moment, though, I felt insecure, and even the person that I probably look to the most in the whole world thinks and calls me clown boy. The meaning I then gave that situation was that I am not worthy, am insecure, and I am not enough.
For a long time after that, there were a lot of times where I was always trying to prove myself. I then started to associate that if I can do certain things, then maybe I will finally be worthy if I did. Then I even realized for a long time I was really seeking his approval over anything he wanted me to. I know he wanted me to like to go to college and get a degree. I went to college for a year or two, but it wasn't my passion. I knew I wanted to do something different, and I found myself feeling guilty like I wasn't enough and secured. Do I have his validation? Then there was another experience that was one root experience that clearly came to my mind in meditation. Then it was also in my conscious mind. Then obviously you've probably heard of my story before about my ex stepmom was in my life between seven and 15 years old. During that time, my brother and I had almost zero freedom whatsoever. We weren't allowed to have friends.
We weren't allowed to do normal kid stuff like watch TV and ride bikes and stuff. We were normally locked outside of the house and had to do yard work, drinking water out of a hose. My brother and I would try to make time go by if we, uh, we were also not given that much food. We'd get a bowl of cereal in the morning, TV, dinner at night. We were both very skinny. My dad divorced ref when I was 15 years old, and all of a sudden, then my brother and I have all this freedom, and it was like a whole new reality. Because I was talked down to physically, mentally, and emotionally abused by my ex stepmom, between that time, I felt like I wasn't enough. I felt like my value wasn't there. And the thing is that it remained on autopilot.
I actually experienced that of someone was all some female figure was always in my life. That was very similar to my ex stepmom trying to control me because I was comfortable with those emotions, and the meaning I gave to women is that women want to control me. Woman controlled my dad, the woman can and then, and then she controlled me. This is just how it is. Even after my ex stepmom, 15 years old, comes around. Then I have all this freedom. Then about 18 years old, I had a girlfriend before that was also trying to cook a little bit controlling and then I had a girlfriend for five, four years that can try and control me, very jealous. Didn't like if I was hanging out with friends a thought that my energy was too much and I dealt with that, and then I was working at Nordstrom's, and woman's shoes broke up with her a couple of years later and then guess what? I got transferred from one department to a new department. That new department had a manager that was almost the same personality as my ex stepmom.
It's very interesting how that works, and here were the game changer years into it. We were trying to get her fired for a long time because she was so in the department because she would say and do things that she shouldn't have gotten away with, but she's protected by upper management. Nothing ever happened. You want to know when everything changed was when I realized these things. I realized from the past that I was given things a meaning that I was my past. I believe that the heaviness of my past was who I am, and then I changed that meaning I saw the meaning in a completely new way. I then was able to see that those things that happened to me were actually positive because it led me to become more aware. It led to waking me up, and if you're here right now, then let me tell you something.
You are waking up to more of who you are. The things that happened in your past led you to go within. It served a purpose. When I realized that the pain of my ex stepmom and all that stuff led to my spiritual awakening, I then change the meaning of the past. Now realize this, this is the scale of consciousness. Right here, we have shame, fear, anger. That's where I lived for a long time, was infuriated anger. The neutrality was where I learned meditation. I learned how to observe my thoughts, to observe the things that happened in the past. Then what happened is I became aware of the reasoning. The reasoning is the meaning I gave meaning to things in the past. I gave them meaning to my ex step mom's situation as I am not worthy. I gave meaning to the whole. I have ADHD and can't focus thing and then realize that I agree to it.
We are the ones that make up these meanings, and now many times, many other people may agree and see and say, well, yes, of course. That's a meaning that you should agree with. I would agree with that too. Yeah. You shouldn't have experienced that when you were younger, but here's the thing, we have to realize that we generated the meaning. When we see that we generated the meaning and agreed to it in the first place, we can then change it by reframing it. I think that a lot of the ex-step-mom stuff happened because then it led me to my spiritual awakening so that I can now help so many people. That's me changing the meaning. When I changed the meaning, it changed my life in so many different ways. Our worthiness is directly correlated with how vow, our sense of value. Are we enough, and if we have this big value system in our mind, these rules that say, I know that I will feel worthy once X, Y, Z, then we're putting our sense of worthiness outside of ourselves.
Let me tell you something. This will change your life. Understanding this right here, you are worthy and valuable for just being you. That's it. You don't need to do anything for me to love you. You don't need to do anything or be in a certain type of way. You are worthy of being you. You add something unique and special to the world. There is no one in the world that can do what you do in the way that you do it. Everything on this planet has a purpose. If you were to watch different nature documentaries, the way the seasons work, the way everything in nature work, it all has a purpose, and it is part of this rhythm of life, and if we can agree that everything has a purpose, you have a purpose, and you have a purpose and something that you're meant to be embodied in this life, and the more you embody that, the more value you put out into the world.
When I started doing what I'm passionate about, which is these making these videos, I started to feel more, you don't want to get up and think that you, what you do is what makes you worthy, but you need to know that I am who I am right now. Me making videos as who I am, sharing these ideas as who I am. The more you tap into who you are, the more valuable you will feel, and when you get rid of those past meetings that you gave things, that's when you start to become free. You may have good things in the past. The meaning that I feel anger, fear, whatever, shame for what happened in the past. That's why it feels so heavy right now, and you've thought and identified with your past, and that's what's brought it into the present moment, and then you said, I'm not enough.
You are enough. You don't have to do anything to be enough. You just are. When you lessen the degree of the rules you have as to what it takes for you to feel valuable, that's where everything begins to change. When you realize your own worthiness when you believe that you are enough because you see that you don't need to be in the level of reasoning. The reasoning is where all the pain happened in the first place. I'm not worthy. I believe this. I believe that that's all reasoning. The truth is you are love, you are love, and you have value just by being you. That's it. This whole belief thing is from the reasoning and below paradigms. We'll still use this in our lives, but the key is knowing who you are at your core, you are love.
Realize that you are enough, and all you have to do is get to the core experiences that caused you to feel like you're not enough. There may be many of them. There are way more than just two for me, but as I become aware of them, I then see them for what they are, just meanings, things I gave meaning to in the past. They are not really who I am. Then as I changed the meaning, it then changes my life. You see, we all have a story. We tell ourselves, we have a story that says that I'm not enough. I'm not worthy. I'm not abundant. That's just a story. And if you want to be worthy, all you have to do is let go of this story and realize you really are love at your core. You are enough, you are enough, and you have value just by being you.
When you're in that feeling state, you will perceive opportunities; you will perceive more money in your life. You will perceive and be at the right place at the right time to attract love. That's all it really takes. But the key to this is feeling when a hundred percent worthy hole incomplete by completing the past and realizing you have value for being you. And if you didn't know, one of the most popular meditations I have is on feeling 100% worthy, only complete and completing those past experiences. Listen to that for 21 days. It will transform your life, and it will allow you more money, love, and success to come into your life.