The ONE idea will TRANSFORM The Way you Manifest

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There's one thing that if you do will make manifestation so much easier. This also has to go deep into understanding how you can transform yourself from the inside out, and this is exactly what I use to create abundance success in my own life and I'm going to show you exactly what to do. I'm in San Diego right now. It's something that I realize I've reverse engineered to my old life and it's actually super simple yet it's super powerful. When I was first getting ready to go full time on YouTube, the thing that made the biggest difference. I wasn't focused on just the actions. I wasn't focused on just the thoughts or the feelings. I was focused on identity on me being a certain way. Then just knowing that that's who I am now. There is this system. It's less than efforts. It's a different paradigm. But understand that normally what we think is we must first have something, then we can do something, then we can be a certain way.

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I must first have that of the art gallery studio that I can do and create the art every day. Then eventually I will be an artist. But in actuality, the way that reality works are the complete opposite way. It actually works where you must first be it, then you can do it, then you can have it. It means that like when I was first making YouTube videos, I just automatically saw myself as a full-time YouTuber. Then what happened is my reality began to conform to that. I didn't say that once I make 600 videos, then I'll be a full-time YouTube. Or it has to do with understanding the frame of identity. How do you see yourself? Normally what happens is people say, well, once I do this, then I can do this, then I can give myself permission to be this.

But the key is seeing yourself as already been at. One of the best ways to do that is to know that the moment you start is the moment you are it. I started making YouTube videos. That was when I started with the identity. But sometimes what people do is they say, no, first I need to get to have it and then have the camera on the fancy equipment. Then I must do it for a period of time. Then I can finally be it. But this is the thing, you can give yourself permission at any moment to simply be it. I think it was called Camara or karma or something like that. What it was is it was this person that went and what they did is they went inside that of a place in Arizona.

It was this guy that was from India. I was actually a very good documentary. I forgot the name of the man. I'm going to figure it out. But what happened was he went to, he was from India, but what he did is he was actually from New York, but he was like, his heritage was from there. What he did is he grows here. You brought a beard. He went to India, took some pictures with some like gurus. What he did is he started to act as a guru. He started to literally be a guru. He did it almost as a prank because the one thing that he always learned from these gurus that he really believed in. What he did is he then to was inside Arizona with all these people that started to believe in them. He would do these free talks and stuff. These people started to believe in him. The only thing he pretty much said is I am fake. It's all in the whole entire time that he was fake and that he wasn't real and that this was a persona. This is a mask. It was funny cause the whole time he was like actually pretending to be a guru and he wasn't. That was the documentary and it ended up being really good. I don't want to ruin it for you in case you watch it. But the interesting thing about it is that when you started to embody it, he said that he started to feel differently. These people's life started to transform and the only thing he was telling him is like the gurus in you.

But they were in a way giving their power to him. But he started to, he said that he started to feel that kind of energy started to feel that you could tell he started to feel differently. He started to almost take on that persona and people could feel this energy off of him. He even went to like some person that was reading his aura and said that he had this incredible aura, but what if we are who we choose to be in every moment and every moment we could simply decide that we are a certain way and that that as we begin to embody that, we'd begin to then begin to experience that in their life. This goes beyond that of acting as if I call this being as if I made some videos a long time ago and I just kind of coined this term being as if being as if means that you're coming at it from the point of the identity level, not acting as if implies that you're going to do it for a period of time and then go back being as if means you decide this is you.

I think that's something else that's powerful to do is to challenge your ideas of fear for expansion. Do something you have never done before. I was talking to someone here yesterday, her names Rebecca, she's awesome. She was telling me about this like course that she went through where it was like an experiential type life course or something like that. It's called stretching or something. You had to stretch beyond that of your current comfort zone. One thing that she had to do and she had to go to on a mission in a way with a partner who was like watching her make sure she did it. She had to go to a restaurant, she had to order for her invisible boyfriend. She had to send back his food twice. This is hilarious. She had to like completely do that. She had to send back his food twice to her invisible boyfriend and she said that the waitress was being really nice. It's like, oh does he want anything else? And you know, think about it, you got to send back the food twice and you got to in order for your invisible boyfriend. She said that there were like family close by that was like trying to just get the kids to eat, not watch because they didn't want them to see that or something. But she had to have a full-on conversation with her invisible boyfriend too with like people in public and stuff.

One of the reasons they do things like that is because it breaks you out of your comfort zone of caring what people think. I think it's genius. It sounds like something I want to do honestly, but think about how the old identity we have, the way we've been being maybe within certain constructs, certain contracts like I'm afraid to do this. I see some people that would be amazing. You tubers, amazing content creators, but they're afraid to put themselves out there because I think this is not who I am. You think you are the little box that we put ourselves in. Every single one of us has a certain box. I have a certain box we're now, I've made videos for so long on YouTube that I feel so comfortable with it and what I wanted to learn how to do is how to actually step outside of that box.

I want to start making videos or making, I'm doing events, but of course, that's a little bit harder to do right now because there are certain things in place where we got to wait a little bit. It's what's going on in the world right now. However, the thing that I want to share is challenging your box because the box is the reason you're stuck. You may feel stuck because you're like, well this is who I am, but what you've been doing may be getting you the same result over and over again.

Maybe find yourself a little mission example. She was telling me as well, she does like women like boot camps kind of in a way where like getting women out of her cause that's like her thesis, which she does for a living. She's like a relationship coach. One thing she does, she has like these things were a woman come to our house and then they go off to do missions and stuff as well. Kind of their own way. One thing that she does is she has them go out and they have to do certain things. Like one of them one time they had to re-enact Titanic in front of like a grocery store. They were like blasting here far wherever you are that song. I have a whistle and anytime the person's not doing what they're supposed to be doing to like break outside their comfort zone, they like to blow the whistle in public, which is like a complete like scare people to do with things, you know.

It's a very interesting thing because we care so much about whether the people think, right. I see so many of you that may be amazing content creators, amazing speakers, amazing. Doing whatever it is that has been holding you back. There are autopilot responses that have kept you within that box. If you were to just step outside the box, you would start to feel freer than ever. Every single day I'm getting up. Right now, I'm making a video because it's so much a part of my identity. This is who I am now though much to work on the opposite of letting go of this identity, still making videos but eventually doing live events and stuff. It's going to require a little bit different than my energy and part of me stepping into that. It's going to be kind of reverting my focus a little bit. How does that version of you think? How does that version of you feel? What does that version of you do everyday?

How does that version of you think about yourself? What does that self-image of that version of you? What are the main beliefs of that version of you and as you pay attention to these, decide that's who you are now and let go of whatever is not. Just let go of the things that come up, the fear that comes up. Just let go of it. Before I made YouTube videos online, it was like that was the unknown. Then I started doing it consistently and then it became a part of myself. The image became a part of just naturally who I am.

Remember, you're not doing this to get somewhere else. You're not doing this to get a certain type of money. You're doing this because it's who you are, so it has to be your heart. Just be it now and watch your life begin to change on the outside. All outer reality is a reflection of the inner reality. As you begin to change, there may be a little bit of a mirror reflection that kind of lags for a minute, but eventually, the mirror of reality will change.

The Magic of Detachment: 3 Things You MUST Let Go of to Manifest Your Dream Life

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Imagine that there's a river stream and you're just floating down this river stream. However, imagine that you're trying to grab onto branches and grab on to other things and trying to attach to it and imagine that if you were to just let go of all of that and go with the flow, that the river would take you exactly where you need to go. Today, I'm going to be showing you the power of detachment, how this can be like magic in your life and why the root of all suffering is attachment. This was something that Buddha said. The more attached we become two different things in our life, the more pain we create. The key is understanding that the more we detach, the freer we become.

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I'm going to share with you some things from my own life that I've noticed through this process and how it can change your life. It became very magical. First off, the thing that I want to share with you is a quote that I heard as well. It came from Deepak Chopra. I'm not going to read the exact quote, but the general idea is that inside of certainty is the prison of our own thoughts and certainties. We become attached to people. We become attached to our thoughts. We become attached to our own labels and in that attachment, is a certainty. Outside of that certainty is uncertainty and uncertainty is where infinite possibilities are. In a way, we hold ourselves through attachment to different ideologies. Maybe it's a certain person. Imagine that there are 7.5 billion people out there in the world and imagine that you are attached to one person.

It has to work right with one person and you inside of this little belief system are like, it needs to work out, and I'm attached and they need to act this way and then I can be happy. But imagine that you are actually possibly limiting yourself. Imagine that there are billions of people out there and there's a high likelihood that if you have such a deep connection with this one person, there's a high likelihood that there could be someone else out there that you have even a deeper connection with. That is just an example of this, but that's many times what we do. We may be holding onto certain perspectives that keep us in certainty and the Deepak Chopra quote was about uncertainty and uncertainty in the unknown is where infinite possibility is. It is where freedom is, and in this blog, I'm going to show you the magic of detachment, how you tap into it and how things really become magical.

When we get out of the prison of our own beliefs, the prison of our own attachment and anytime think about anytime we to our own thoughts, that's where the pain starts to come from. That's where then we start to get in this little negative thought loop. There was something I was thinking about the other day and I just kept thinking about it. The more I thought about it, the more it grew and the more attached to it I was and the more then I would go out into the world and see other things that reflected that back to me. But the moment I caught myself in the moment I became detached from it. Think about it. When you become detached, you then are able to separate yourself from being inside of it. You can then observe it in a new way and when you observe it in a new way, that's where power is.

I've attachments and their way of control. First off, there are different ways we become attached in general. We can become attached by our thoughts, we can become attached to people and how people act. We can become attached to the outcome. This is something I've definitely been attached to in my life is I've been attached to pretty much all of these. I'm sure we all have, but beliefs. Another one touches certain beliefs. This is the way reality is. Labels. I am somebody with ADHD, this is who I am. It's also kind of tied into an identity as well. I'm to give him some of my notes here. I wanted to make this blog a little bit more in detailed understanding this whole process and really how it works and what we've become attached to. A lot of what we become attached to in general is we have this attachment because we like a certainty when we have certainty, we feel safe, but many times what happened is we became safe and we decided this is very important to become safe.

Then we drained out the magic of life. We drained out allowing the universe to show us an infinite possibility and I believe that in certainty is where boring is. It's where boring is. It's where everything's the same over and over and over again. The more we allow ourselves to change that, the easier it is. I realize this also when I was working that nine to five job, I remember specifically outcome as working that nine to five job selling woman's shoes at Barneys New York. There were days I would go into work and I'd be very focused on a certain outcome. I would say, okay, my goal is to sell. It was a commission-based job. I got paid like 5 or 6% commission on whatever I sold and the idea is that if I sell like $5,000 that's like a 300 something dollars. I'd go in some days I'd be okay my outcomes, I want to sell this amount. When I went in and I was helping people and I was then attached to people and how they responded to me and the hopes that they would buy something because if they would buy something I would then have my outcome.

The more I would try to control all of these at different aspects and the more attached I was to the outcome, the more resistant I would because the more attached I was. I was also saying I wasn't trusting the process. If I was helping somebody, I was like, okay, this person needs to buy because I only have a couple of extra hours on my shift left and I need to hit my goal and then I would be attached to the outcome and it would create this resistance around everything and then what would happen is those customers would feel that resistance from me and then they wouldn't buy. But let me share with you something. There is a magic to detachment. There were days I would go into work completely detached from the outcome. Still with the intention. This doesn't mean detachment is like we're just aloof and we just have no direction whatsoever. Still have intention. It's like I intend to help people today. I intend to have this outcome but I'm not attached to it having to happen my happiness, my internal state of being is not attached to the outside. That's really what attachment is to. We have the inner world and when we're attached we are in a way trying to control. We are like grabbing the universe by the throat.

This is the throat of the universe. We are grabbing the universe by the throat and we're saying it better workout like this. We're trying to control the outside and attached to it rather than detaching from it emotionally and energetically. But if we were to detach from it, we would then become freer. That sales commission job and every day I went in, I started at zero. It was like new every single day. The cool thing about that is it was like a law of attraction playground. I got to see what worked and what didn't work because every day I started new, and I'll tell you the most magical days were the days I was the most detached from the outcome and from how people acted. I would just have fun. I would focus on the intention of the vision, but it was mainly focused on detachment from outcome, having fun, trusting the process. That's when magic would really begin to happen. Even this works with relationships as well. I remember when I first got into one of my past relationships when I was in a relationship with the amazing Leo war and when we first started dating, I remember I was really trying to control, I was attached to the outcome super attached to the outcome.

It's was like, I hope it works out. I really hope it works out. It was like the beginning. I never felt like that before. Also, I never had that perspective, but I never had a like a soul for connection with someone before. But I remember the beginning of our relationship, even though we were in different cities, she was in LA, I was in Vegas. I'd be thinking, I'd hope everything goes well. She went to Europe with her best friends and I was worried. I was like, I hope, I hope that you know, everything's still going well even though we're so far away and we can't talk as much or in different times zones and stuff. The more attached to what I was, the more resistant I felt. Then more resistance she felt because energetically we also have, you know, let's get a little esoteric here. We have energetic cords from person to person. We all have energetic cords that when we think about someone, we're sending them energy and as vice versa. What happens is when we're attached, we're trying to control. We are in a way rigidly controlling that energetic cord. Then that causes resistance.

If you're trying to attract love into your soul, into your life, the more you think about this person and the more you feel resistance cause they're not acting the way you want, the more you resist them. The more they feel that because energy is contagious. There's magic though to detachment because detachment is also not, it is unconditional love. Many times, you'll feel even more of that love. Leo and I were in a relationship for about a year. We're still very good friends and we had this deep love for each other, even though we're not together. The moment that it changed because we were starting to feel resistance in our relationship. We were traveling the world like you guys may have seen. We were in Costa Rica. The more we tried to control and we had an expectation and attachment to an expectation of each other, the more resistance and in a little bit of a box we felt. We felt like we were in a prison of our own beliefs, a prison of our expectations of each other, but then what we realized was that if we can let go of these expectations and let go of these labels and these identities, that even being together, we then felt free. We even felt closer than ever and it was something. It was a magical type of thing.

It doesn't mean that we're back together. It was a very happy ending. We both are still amazing friends and we will be for our whole lives. However, the reason I share that is there's a magic in an unconditional love that happens when you're not attached to how love has to be. When you're not attached to different thoughts and even your internal world, the time you feel suffering in your internal world is when you feel attached to your thoughts. Because when you feel attached to your thoughts, many times you start to identify with your thoughts, you start to say, this is who I am and one of the biggest cons in life is that we believe we are our thoughts. We think thoughts, but we are not our thoughts but we think we are. We become attached to it because becomes safe, but when we step into the unknown, this is where then we can experience. You can't experience anything new in this little box because all you're going to experience is more of what you know. However, if you step into what you don't know, this is where then the mind can't try to just jump to the easiest thing.

The mind can't jump to what's familiar because there's nothing familiar with a new environment. If you go to the same gym every day, you're like, okay, I'm going to work out right here. Okay, now I'm going to go to that machine over there. I do this every Wednesday. Then what happens if you go to a completely new gym? Maybe some type of like they have this place in Vegas. You go. Whereas like different types of yoga boot camp stuff and all this other stuff in different rooms and, and all these little dumbbells and stuff that you use your mind, you go in there and be like, that's just, no, I don't know. By branching out and decided to do something like that. You may meet the love of your life right there next to you doing a little boot camp, little dumbbell thing, and you're like, Whoa, that's not a backward side. But I like, Oh, now we've got another life up. But here's the thing with love little pedestal. Look at that. We're on a pedestal. Oh look, we're at the same level. Imagine you make something very important. What we didn't do is we put it on a pedestal.

It's up here. You say, look at you. Look at you up there. You're so beautiful. Oh my God. It doesn't work out. It feels so good. The moment we put something on a pedestal and we make it very important, is the moment we create resistance. Importance equals resistance in importance. Many times, also equals attachment. I'll tell you right now, anytime I make something important, I get stopped on my hand. He goes, Aaron, no. I was like, don't you know there have been times I'm like, I'm looking at a house. I'm like, I really want this house. I really want this house. I start feeling resistance. I started really thinking about it. I get my own head about it, and then things will kind of fall apart. It's a universe going, sorry. No, just relax. It's okay. We got this. Okay. That's what happens. When you start to date somebody like, Oh my God, you're on a pedestal. You're still amazing. Just some music, just so amazing. She's like, why am I feeling this resistance from this person? I like this person. I want to like them, but I feel this resistance and the universe goes on. Your hand goes, Aaron. No, let me go. Okay, detach.

You may be attached to a certain person, relationships. You had certain people you had certain thoughts you have thinking those are who you are. That's your identity. When you realize that you can cut that ball and chain. You thought it was a chain, but actually, it was like a piece of dental floss. You could just cut that dental floss so easily and just be free and be free. The key is the realization that you are not your thoughts, that you do not need anyone else in your life to make you happy. You generate your happiness from within. You did not need the outcome to turn out a certain way. You do not need to be attached to certain beliefs, labels or identity. It is a false premise that we've been sold. It is a false premise that we believed and we have to take responsibility for it. When we change that, we change everything. The key to everything I'm sharing with you today is to let go. That's it. Let go and be free. Step into the unknown challenge. Become aware of the story. You tell yourself the story about how reality works, the story that you have to remain attached to the outcome, the story that the people you meet, you have to be a certain way.

There's a story around all of these things and when you let go of that story and you detach from it, you become free and when you become free, you become empowered. When I became free of that belief that I had to do intermittent fasting within a one and half hour window, I felt like there was a hug where I can eat whatever I want and I can have a shake in the morning. It’s a whole new world and you would have a whole new world. You're attached to a breakup that you went through. Then you're going to feel resistance in this little box, but if you just let go and you realize the truth that there are like billions of people out there and that if you had this deep connection with this person, then there's a likelihood that you could have even a deeper connection with someone else and then you learned a lot from that relationship and that now you know that there's something out there even better for you. Many times, in my life I let go and magic happens. Even my own YouTube stats when I'm intending to grow my channel, the more I wanted to go a certain way, the more resistance I feel, but the more I'm cool, the more I'm cool. I just have fun.

You guys can feel that and remember you guys probably see me do that analogy before. I'm really attached to what you do and how you react to me and what you think about me and you feel that resistance. We're going down this beautiful river and this beautiful river is taking us exactly where we need to go. But we're trying to grab onto branches. We're trying to grab onto things. We are like just trying to like viciously go this. It's like, dude, the current is taking you where you need to go. Just chill out and relax bro. Don't be attached. Don't try to control. Just be. The more you let go when you become free of trying to control, the more you let go, you become free of your thoughts. People trying to have them act a certain way. The outcomes of beliefs, labels, identity, the freer you will actually be. This is the key to really becoming the kind of person that you want to be.

The Best Way to Raise Peoples Vibration During Fearful Times

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Energy is contagious but in a good way and in this blog, I'm going to share with you how you can use your own energy to add value and raise other people's vibration and how this is really the key during fearful times on the planet. When other people are in that fear reaction mode and they look over at you and they see you just relaxed, just chilling in a high vibe state, that's going to change everything. In this blog, I'm going to show you exactly what to do. Today, I'm going to be sharing with you exactly step by step point by point a, b, c what to do to help other people raise their vibration. Right now, on the planet, there's a lot going on. I don't know when you're reading this blog, you might be reading it right now and there's a lot of stuff going on in the world.

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You might be reading it a little bit later when you just notice that you have other people or their friends or their family that are in fear. We've got a lot of people in their houses right now not able to necessarily leave. You've got a lot of people that may be watching the news and understand that whatever you focus on, you feel, and if other people, if your friends and family are focused on the news, no wonder they may be in a complete fear mode. No wonder their vibration may not be that high and the best way you can possibly help other people raise their vibration is by you first raising your vibration. That's the key to this energy is contagious. When they see you just relaxed, understanding, trusting this process, understanding that there's a process to this as well. Right now, what's happening is there is this clearing within the collective consciousness that's manifesting itself in a way that doesn't look the most pleasant. But this fear is coming up for a reason. If you were to understand that there is a purpose to this, even though it doesn't seem that pleasant and trust this process and knowing that a lot of times as well.

This is the thing, it's not so much that this thing has the incredible amount of power as it would have if many, many people if it wasn't advertised as much. What I mean by this is I'm not saying that what's going on right now is in dangerous cause I'm sure it is. But what I'm saying is people's belief in it actually fuels it to become that much more dangerous. It's very obvious the way that it's being projected out there, the way that it's being exaggerated and that actually fuels it. I'm not saying that it's not powerful, but that actually fuels it even stronger. That belief in it, that fear in it and think about it, fear weakens the immune system when people are in fear. They even showed, I was reading something yesterday that said, when people are in fear, they're less creative, their immune system goes down, their bodies become more acidic. When you're in a confident state, you have a stronger immune system. One of the best things you can possibly do, just in general for anything that's, because I don’t know how long this thing will last, but just know that you being in a strong state, you understanding and be able to observe what is happening is going to go so far with you really retaining your own power.

Then when other people look at you and they're like, oh my goodness, the truth, they, what they're doing is a dog. Oh my God. Then they look at you and you're like Ricky, and then they see you and you're just kind of chilling. You're just like, Oh yeah, I'm about that. Well, this is where I'm at right now. This is how I feel. I'm just too kind of, I'm observing it, I'm aware of it. This is the meaning and the effect you get out of it, right? While a lot of people may be in fear about it, some people, I was texting somebody and they're like, oh, I'm just going to spend this time to read books. I'm going to have wine tastings. I'm going to do this, I'm going to do that. I'm like, wow, okay. You're going to enjoy yourself. But that's great. What I'm saying with this is understand that when it comes to this process, theres a couple of things that you're going to do that you can do that I'm going to share with you, but in general you've got this scale of consciousness over here. It's kind of small.

At the bottom, fear, anger, neutrality, willpower, reasoning, love, fear and anger is where the news is. All right. Fear and angry. Anger is where your friends and family maybe now understand that. Above that is neutrality. This is where you learn to observe what is happening. It's a neutral state. It's like, oh yes, that is happening, but it's not like you have to feed into it. Fear comes. Fear is actually something that all of us have that is actually supposed to be ingrained within us. Fear is what helps us to survive. The problem is when we've projected that fear when we think and we start to believe that that's going to happen to us and we start seeing all these evidence of it on the media and then people are like sharing their stories of what it's like. It like increases that fear instead of just being aware of it and being aware of like the facts that almost everybody that's gotten has been very much older.

Also, if you have a strong immune system and the amount of recovery like it depends on what you focus on. You focus on this, then yes you could be in fear, but if you don't focus on it, you're not going to feel it so much. When you just neutralize it by observing it, that's where the power is now in general with whatever's going on in the world and your life and your family. If you can observe what is going on rather than react, you will then be more relaxed. Then above that, you'll see willpower. That's reasoning the intellect of the mind. What do you believe to be true? Everything is a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you look for more evidence of something, you're going to find it. Then above that is love and you've got to let go the reasoning to be than in love. Let me share with you a little story of something that happened yesterday. No, every lead by relaxing, chill out. Just trust this process. Understand that you are knee terminal spiritual being, having a temporary human experience and at greater levels of consciousness. I believe this is something that's clearing out energy, whether it's negative or positive.

I mean obviously, it's not pleasant. Because that was causing a self-fulfilling prophecy of me not connecting with other people. Then what I did is I just realized that I could just be myself, not need anyone else's validation or anything. I'm just going to be myself. Since then and that's what I've done. It's crazy the amount of energy that comes back when people are like, how do you do that? How can I do this? That's what I wanted to share as well is leading by example. When talking about adding value, helping other people raise their vibration, every single one of us has a program. Programs are problems. A lot of times we have these programs, which are these thoughts, these thoughts, structures around different people in our lives around ourselves and these programs we share many times with other people. Sometimes you might find it hard to change because as you start to change, people keep seeing you like the old version of you and they kind of refuse to let that go and you find it hard to change. That's why sometimes you have to kind of distance yourself for awhile while you're going through a transformation because of these shared programs and it's almost easy for you to click back in place. Here is one thing that happened with Ho'oponopono with me.

My mom used to be addicted to Percocet and Xanax for years she was taking it and she had a car accident and then after that, she became addicted to it and she was taking it very consistently and it wasn't cool. It wasn't pleasant too, to see, you know, I love my mom and to see her in that state. The energy was very low when I was around her and I would really want her to change. You want to know, I was like, mom, if you change to do this, I will send you to Costa Rica to do this. I think she resisted it. Then what happened is I found this process called Ho'oponopono. It's very simple. It's I love you. I'm sorry, please forgive me. Thank you. What it has to do with is understanding that we have an image of other people in our lives. We have an image of ourselves and if what we can do is change our image of other people and also change our image of ourselves. Also, it's going to sound kind of crazy, but I promise you it's super powerful. You take responsibility for where the other person is because you created the other person and their problem or program. The idea is like my mom's completely 100% whole and complete. Even if she's doing something I don't necessarily agree with or like by me insisting and laying on the reality that there's something wrong with her. It's like that continues to stay in my life.

Here’s what I did. I didn't tell her this, but what I started to do is I started to just see her. I was just holding complete, not necessarily even different than she was. I was not doing pills, wasn't even like that. What I was doing is I was thinking, I love you. I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I was just seeing her as whole and complete and holding her in my mind. After about three weeks to a month of doing this, I talked to her and guess what? She says I quit doing pills after years of doing it. Abiotic it was, I didn't, I didn't know if I was ever going to see her really come out for those, to be honest with you, because she was so deep in it. It's been a year and a half and she hasn't been pills at all. I'm extraordinarily proud of her and she did it herself. But what I'm saying is when we let go of the programs that we have of other people, it then affects them. This process is founded by a doctor in Hawaii who was a study and it did this on people in an insane asylum and like a medical ward and seen asylum where people were there and they had to be there. What he did is he went in, he never even met the patients. He would look at their charts and he would heal within himself and he would change his image of them and see them as whole and complete. Guess what happened over the course of a year or two, people were actually able to leave and go back to wherever they were. Some of them were in prison, so they were able to go back to their prisons.

Some of them were able to have family visit, some of them were actually able to leave. All but two people. They were like 50 some people, all but two people that happened to over the course of while he was there, he never even saw them or talk to them. This poses the question, what is reality? Reality is a reflection and as he changed, that changed his version of them, his reality. Think about that. Think about it. Where are people on the outside? Anyways? They're inside. Your eyes are reflecting light and you are interpreting everyone on the outside, inside of yourself. If you change inside yourself, it then changes the outer reality and that's why the whole point upon it was such a powerful statement for statements. I love you. I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you. I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. As you state this many times, it begins to clear out your energetic field and it makes things in your life so much smoother. We have these things that happened in the past, these programs that we've tied onto, and then we go out into the daily world and we attract more and more people that have those.

Until we become aware of it and then start to clear and we just simply say these statements, I have a meditation. You can listen to for 21 days where I also explained it a little bit more. These four statements will change. Your life, will change your energetic field, and if you hold other people in your mind, you then begin to change your connection with them as well. We all have these interject, it sounds esoteric, but we all have these energetic cords between us and other people and this ancient Hawaiian practice and knows that understands that and what we do when we do this process is we heal those energetic cords and it's almost like then it goes and helps to heal those people as well because we're healing ourselves, taking responsibility for ourselves. What are we taking responsibility for other people doing stuff? We're taking responsibility for our judgment about them, for our interpretation about them. Then we're allowing the divine to flow through to transform it. One quicker story about this really quick. It's going to sound, I have a thumbnail editor that does my thumbnails and I pay them. With everything going on right now in the world, it's kind of crazy. I've been giving them a little bit of leeway of like how, you know, I need like thumbnails back to schedule videos. I'm wanting to get behind done scheduling out videos because of everything going on. I've been like this last week, I'm like, dude, I need some thumbnails. He's had some of that thumbnails for like 1520 videos.

He's had like the screenshots. All he has to do is make the thumbnails. He’s had them for like three weeks, but it's been procrastinating. I keep asking them, can I get them? It's kind of new that I'm working with this guy and it's been taking them a while to get to me. It was really, it was kind of like frustrating to me because I'm trying to be compassionate about everything that's going on in the world, but he's also working from home and I can have other people do this and I'm paying them a good amount of money to do this. I was trying to be compassionate but at the same time conflicted because I need to schedule videos. I realized I was feeling a lot of resistance about this. What I ended up doing is I ended up doing Ho'oponopono. I ended up healing within myself. This resistance that I have about the situation, I saw him as completely whole and complete and I was let go of that resistance and I had to stick to myself. I love you. I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. The next morning, I woke up after doing this and I had like six thumbnails like right there. It was like days going by and then all of a sudden, there are all these thumbnails and I wrote an email about it and send it out to my email list because it was such a small thing. But this stuff really does work. It is extraordinarily powerful.

3 Steps to Attracting Love and Having Them Chase You

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This right here is a simple process for attracting love, very easy to do. It gets you in the vibrational resonance of attracting love. I've seen it work not only in my life but other people's lives and I recently did a podcast episode with the relationship expert who shared this and I think it is super powerful and I can't wait to share it with you.

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Today, I'm going to be sharing with you how you can go about creating magnetic energy and especially being in love, having that love energy being projected out so that literally the energy dynamic as to where you have that magnetism. People literally chase you and first off, do you want to learn how to get someone to chase you? I have a podcast episode I'm going to link below on my podcast called Expand your Awareness 2.0 podcasts. I had someone named Rebecca Boatman on. She's awesome. She's a relationship expert. She helps women, specifically, women attract love into their life. In that episode, what she was sharing with me is some very powerful ways to go about this process, which is very much in alignment with some of the things I teach. But here is one of them. If somebody wants to get someone else to chase them deep down, that's a form of manipulation because they wanted to get something. They want someone to be different than they are. The thing is when you learn the energy dynamics of this though, you begin to feel freer and you give yourself the emotions of what you want to experience and then you're more a vibrational match to that reality.

Think about this, if you were to imagine the vibration, the reality where you are in a loving relationship, you have all the qualities that you want. What you may realize is that when you see that version of you, you behave a certain way, you act a certain way, you a not act, you just are a certain way and you carry yourself a certain way. What you'll find is that that's just naturally who you are. That's just naturally you. But what you realize is there's a certain energy that you have, but if you're in the vibration of wanting it, desiring it, then as you've maybe heard me say in other videos before then that means there's an emphasizing that this reality that I want is not already here. In a way, a lack that has been emphasized. One thing that she really helped me understand just in my own life is there are certain things that I happen to my past, maybe you kind of know my past with my ex step-mom situation and control and stuff like that.

Like, even after my ex stepmom left my life, I had my first girlfriend. I was always trying to control me. She didn't like me to be a certain way so that I was too loud, too outgoing. Then after I broke up with her, I got transferred to a new department and, and woman's shoes and from BP shoes to salon shoes at Nordstrom's where I used to work. It was the manager that was almost the same exact per styles. For this process, this is what you do. Oh, insert another story with you as well. I've shared it in another YouTube video, but she shared it on the podcast. It was super fun. It was actually a very fun episode as well. But this is what you do. You write down three. What Rebecca said to do, you write down three qualities of that you want in love, three qualities or values or feelings that you want. You become crystal clear as to what those three are. She said that then you know those three like the back of your hand. For example, I knew my three things weren't like I knew the opposite of it. I knew that I didn't want someone that was controlling. I didn't want someone that was super serious. But so, what is the opposite? Here's what, here's what I realized is part of the characteristics I do want. Okay? This is what I became clear to because here's the thing if you don't know what you want or you don't know what your vision is, then you won't have anything to move towards.

It's very important to understand as well. A lot of people, even just in life in general, they may not have a vision for something they're moving towards and therefore they continue to track things that maybe they don't want. I even talked about on the podcast episode below, but one of them is freedom and that's actually very common for guys. They want freedom. I think for woman value, safety a lot. The other one is playfulness and fun, playfulness and fun. I want to have that mentality. The third one is actually because I think I didn't really receive it when I was young because one of my ex stepmom was in my life. One, she was very masculine because she was very controlling and manipulative. Then we weren't allowed to see our real mom who is nurturing, but we weren't allowed to see here from seven, 15 years old because we were in a way kind of brainwashed and not allowed to really to see her in a way. Every time we'd go over to her house, my mom's house, when my ex stepmom is in the picture, we'd come back and we'd only go there for like a day or two, but then we'd be like punished. Then we eventually associated pain with going to her house. We stopped doing it.

Then after 15, we had a relationship with our mom of course, but before that, we didn't. Here's the thing, it's kind of shadowing over here. There we go. I think I always craved nurturing. I think one of the things that want is somebody that's playful and fun that gives me my own freedom that also is nurturing and, and you know, that has that mentality. Maybe because I didn't receive it as much because of the energy that the dynamics growing up and be kind of deprived of that in some ways. That those are my values. I know what that is. I didn't know what that is before. But now, here's the key. Here's the thing that changes at all. If yours was safety, if yours was a connection, if yours was maybe freedom or maybe playfulness and fun or whatever those emotions for you to be a vibrational match to that relationship, you have to first give yourself those emotions.  Get those three different things and you'll see. Like I said, the podcast episodes below. Check it out. She gives a lot of other amazing information but three things that you want values, and feelings that you want to experience and then give yourself those emotions because as you give them to you and as you realize as well, the more you work on you and the more you're on your own kind of vision, like one thing I always say is to be the star of your own movie. When you are the star of your own movie, you have magnetic energy, but when you're trying to be in someone else's movie, you're then placing yourself and not the star role. Kind of sucks to be in that role, right? You feel like you're waiting. She said this yesterday.

We were talking about this like waiting for the text message, checking your Wi-Fi to make sure maybe my wife I just went down and that's why they haven't texted backchat. But as I say as a fun episode that we did, we had a lot of fun recording it, but this is a simple process that you can apply and to feel that emotion now. Something else that really works for this as well is meditation as you will get you to a certain state and gets you to a certain feeling. When you feel that feeling, what you'll find is that then do you bring more of it in your life? I have had so many people tell me that they attracted love by listening to attract love. When you get your inner guide, when you get your insides to feel what it would be like to be in that relationship, you didn't attract opportunities into your life. That may have been always right in front of you, but you just haven't been aware of it.

The Great Awakening: How to Maintain a High Vibration During it

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During the great awakening, there will be more transformation than ever before on the planet. The thing is it maybe it easy to sucked into certain things. Today, I'm going to be talking a little more about the great awakening. I've been making some videos about it lately. A lot of people have been, I think wanting to understand more about this process that's going around right now on the planet right now. Many people are waking up on the planet more than ever before. It is amazing to see people may be at their houses, they may be going down certain rabbit holes that may be questioning their reality.

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This is all part of what is called the great awakening. The great awakening and just to give you a general basis for what's happening right now from my perspective, and like I say, do your own research with this. I'm not an expert at all of this. I've just done quite a bit of my own research and this is the kind of conclusions that I've come to, but in general, the great awakening is about the light increasing on the planet. As the light increases, as more and more people become more and more aware, guess what happens? There are certain people that may have had that power for a long time, those resources for a long time, that may have kept people in the dark for a long time, and in a way, they're getting a little bit, they're getting very scared because they realize they're losing that power, and because of that, they're doing and pulling out the last cards up their sleeves to keep the vibration lower on the planet.

This is that scale of consciousness that I shared in many videos from the book, power versus force, and it just kind of shows a logical way of understanding this. At the bottom, you've got shame, fear, guilt, anger, neutrality, and then acceptance, willingness, reasoning than love, joy, peace and enlightenment. The idea is that everything resonates at a certain level of consciousness. What happens is what they've realized or what certain people have realized that wanted to retain the power is that if you keep people in anger and fear, they're much easier to control. They're much more likely to look to authority for certainty, and that's I've just been going on for quite a while on the planet. What's happening in the vibration is raising on the planet. More and more people are waking up and they're starting to see the smoke and mirrors.

When we talk about this, when we talk about the great awakening and this amazing time on the planet, even though there's going to be some things that get brought to the surface, some people may get very angry with some of the things that come out in the collective consciousness with some of the things that we learn about how certain things have happened in the past, certain ways that maybe the collective has been in the dark and that may cause a little bit of disruption. However, it's part of a process. It's part of a process for us to become aware of these things. It is amazing. I'm not kidding you. I see so many people going through this. It's like the media and you know, the media is controlled by six major corporations on all the media and you can do research on this.

As I said, do your own research. I'm not here as some like heavenly saint ignoring all white trying to come here to tell you that this is the way reality is. No, do your own research. When I went through my weekend in 2012, I learned about this and kind of put it in the background because some of it's kind of negative. That's something that I wanted to share as well as when we talk about the great awakening and stuff going on, while there may be a lot of exaggeration on the media, there may be a lot of exaggeration with certain things. Understand that this right here, you can't maybe see it cause the glare says it's still serious. What I mean by that is it's not like there isn't this thing going around that is non-existent at all. There are people that are in pain.

I know that because a lot of them reach out to me as I make this content and they're like, I'm a nurse and I do see a lot of people in pain and all of these things and there may be people in pain, there may be people on the front lines that are noticing that this is still a real thing. This isn't like anybody. It's all an act. That's why I also wrote right here, it's not this or that. It's this and that. Even though maybe there was some intention to cause the idea behind this whole kind of like the darker perspective I guess you could say is that if you infuse a problem into society, maybe orchestrate a certain problem, then what happens, and I know this stuff I understand as well. Let me just say this, when we talk about conspiracy theories, there's a negative connotation.

I don't believe everything that I read, I have a lot of discernment with things. There are certain patterns that you begin to notice. The CIA back in the day made the word conspiracy theory and also gave it a negative connotation, did deter people from looking into things. The CIA has also infiltrated almost all of Hollywood. By the way, Hollywood, the name in itself comes from an ancient meaning. That means to cast spells upon the collective to cast spells. A lot of these things are right in front of our face. When we talk about things like this, realize that if there's a negative connotation, it's like, how could you believe those conspiracy theories? Oh my goodness, understand. There are certain patterns you may eventually see if you do enough of the research. Go within yourself and see your own discernment as well.

However, when we talk about the way that may be a darker elite people may do certain things to retain the power and maybe they're also controlled by someone else behind the scenes, what do is sometimes is they'll put out a problem, there'll be a problem, and then what happens is that problem then makes the people more open to a new solution. When it comes to that, the problem may be this whole thing that's going around, everyone's staying in their house, it's still a problem. It's not that it doesn't exist, it's not that it's not painted, it may be exaggerated. There are certain things that have definitely come out with either doctor saying certain things like they were told to deem anybody that dies as having that if they were around a younger kid saying, I'm not going to do that.

They've come forward and said things. People have broken the hospital empty hospitals that have said that, Oh, it's completely packed everywhere you go saying that, oh well then, they go to jail for breaking into a hospital and trespassing. However, it's showing that maybe this is a little bit different than what we're being told, but as I said, this is not this or that. This is still serious. There are still people that are being that are still people that are passing away from it. There are still people that are in pain from it. There are still people on ventilators. This isn't about, it's either 100% completely true or 100% completely false. It's a little bit of maybe the way that it's being explained as completely in fear and anger. Because if you keep people in fear and anger, then they're easily able to control. One of the things that I really want to encourage you to have during the great awakening in order to maintain a high vibration, because as you see on the scale right here, you have your anger.

This is where we learn how to observe our thoughts rather than react. As you move, you see acceptance, willingness, reasoning is the intellect of the mind intellectually understanding things. Then you get to love. The two biggest transitions you'll have is that two 50 and love to 50 in love to fifties observing what happens. One very important thing during the great awakening to observe what has happened on the world but not necessarily get sucked into it and, and super emotionally tied into it that may cloud the judgment of it and also not to beat yourself up if you do. It's normal. We have a survival mechanism and if we look out into the world and think that this is happening everywhere and think that will, I mean in some ways it is happening everywhere, but if, you know what I mean?

But if it's happening like right outside your door and, and there's more and more belief in it that you could get it in that you feel that fear, but maybe just don't pay attention to the news. As I said, this is still serious. I'm not discounted. I'm not telling people that this isn't real. I'm saying it's this and this. Maybe it's still being exaggerated and then that's what's having people question their reality. But when we talk about maintaining a high vibration, one thing that you must have during this time is discernment. Even me telling you this right now, go within, do your own research. Have discernment though because there'll be a lot of false information that comes out. There are many things that are at a certain level of control. If you go on Google for example, and you type in certain keywords, you won't find legit information like eight pages in, and to be honest with you, who goes eight pages in on Google, almost nobody.

If you can control some of the narratives, you can control some of the results, then you can control some of the perspectives. Understand this kind of fight with censorship going on, but eventually, there will be breaking out of it. There'll be us becoming more and more aware. However, discernment is super important right now to not get too tied up into things, to also not get tied up into too big of claims. Some people may say things. I know a couple of weeks ago I read somebody I read from somewhere or heard from somebody that was giving a doing like a YouTube live. Oh, there's going to be like, there could be three days of darkness from what insiders are saying. Then I went in with an a for a day or two. I was like, huh? I even shared it on my Instagram.

This is what someone said. Who has insider information? Three days of no internet or something like that. But then I went in within myself and I said, do I think this will happen? I said, no, my own intuition tells me, no, your intuition is more powerful than what you are, the sources you are being told. I encourage you to use your own intuition and did your own research? However, here's another tip for maintaining a high vibration. The other day, I shared something on Instagram. There was a documentary that came out that's called out of the shadows on YouTube. It's about how Hollywood has been in a certain way controlled by the CIA. Kind of the stuff I was telling you about earlier from somebody that was inside of Hollywood and certain journalists that were suppressed from certain information and it was very interesting.

However, it wasn't the highest vibe thing to watch. When I share it, the thing that I don't want to happen is people to go too far down the rabbit holes to where then they feel really, really negative or they feel very much in fear because there are two sides of this. When you study some of the dark occult things that maybe certain people do on the planet other than the way like dark magic, it can be a little bit dark and well obviously, and then you feel that and then you, you feel like it lowers your vibe. Here's some advice that I have for maintaining a high vibe. Get in and study it if you feel like if you're passionate about it but then get out of it when you're not doing it. Don't go down the rabbit holes so long all at once.

I preferred little like pieces here and there so that I don't get too much of that kind of energy, that negative energy in a way. I find that then I have weird dreams at night and stuff like that, so study it and then take disengage from it. Be aware of it and observe it when you're studying it, but not too caught up in it because you can go down those rabbit holes. I've seen people, I've seen it happen people, and it's happened to me. The key to this is discernment. Still knowing that when we're going through this process, use your own intuition. That's the most powerful basis that you have. I've made a couple of videos recently on the great awakening that had been getting a lot of attention. I made a video on three hidden agendas that I believe are going on behind the scenes.

If you want to check those out, there's one called the great awakening, has begun different signs of that, different material. You’ll see a lot of new perspectives on that maybe I haven't shared before, but in general, to maintain a high vibe, it's about neutrality. It's about also re realizing and being aware of it but not being too sucked into it to where you feel like it's straining your energy. By doing that, then you're going to have more and more energy to put into other things in your life. I believe that one of your purposes is to have a higher vibration to bring through this information, even you just by paying attention to it right now and it affects people in your life, even in subconscious ways, even if you don't share it with them.

I believe that subconsciously our energy is affecting just more and more of us becoming awake right now. It is the most important and positive, powerful time to be alive than ever. But on the other side of that, there'll be some negative things that come up. Like this stuff happened right now is negative stuff that is clearing. However, I think that power exists inside of you. We as the people are taking our power back. It's a super important time to be alive right now.

3 Important Things to Know About What is Really Going on Right Now in The World

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There's a lot more going on than we are actually able to see. The things I want to talk about in this blog, are the three important things to remember about the time we're in right now. What's really going on behind the scenes and exactly what you can do about it to take your power back. I'm sure you could see in the world right now, there's a lot going on. You got a lot of people that are a quarantine at their house. They're not even necessarily able to leave. Some places it's a little bit more intense than others. However, there is definitely an adjustment being made for a lot of people in their daily lives. It's been about, it's been about three weeks now. It's been about two weeks since this whole thing started.

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I've been at my house, I've left maybe a couple of times for little things, but other than that, I pretty much been here. Maybe you've been in the same place and maybe you look on the news and you're able to see all the fear, all the stuff that's going on and worried that something might actually happen to you. The first thing I want to say about this process is that the key to this is really knowing that what is being projected out, the kind of energy that it's being led with may have some type of ulterior emotive. If you just look to the news as past history, you'll notice that 99.9% of anything the media has ever shared has been negative. The first thing I want to do is just share that with you because you may notice that if you're becoming very fearful, the thing you might want to do is actually to turn off the news because the news, that's what it does is it gets people in fear.

The reason being is it has to do with many different layers to this. But when people are in anger and fear, they are much easier to control. They're much more obedient. They're much more looking to authority. When people are looking to authority, that's when in a way, they're then giving away their power. What I believe and what I want you to know and remember about what is happening right now is that there is a massive purge going on within our collective consciousness. What is a purge? A purge is a release of energy. If you were to do something like for example, plant medicine, I've done plant medicine a few times and I did it. I do it in Costa Rica where it's legal at a facility that's licensed to do it. Then I'm just saying that so you know that this is like a legit thing I'm talking about.

When you do this, you know stuff, what happens is you, you take it and then it brings up the stuff that is ready to be cleared. You may like I've done it before and it's brought up memories of when I was a kid. Things that happened that made me feel unworthy. Little things like that. The reason it brings up these subconscious things is so that we can feel it, be aware of it, and then let it go. Right now, what has happened in the collective consciousness is it purging out the lower vibrations, purging out what has been hidden? We think this is all about this, this thing that's going on in the world. I think there's more to it. I'm not just saying that as some like conspiracy theories or something. If you look at it, you'll see that there's actually other stuff going on behind the scenes.

I believe that at a deeper level, there's going to be a lot of people that have maybe done some very bad things. We call them elite people. I believe that they will get taken down. What has been under humanities awareness? Most people's awareness is getting brought to the forefront so that other people can see it can't be hidden any longer. That's what I believe is happening right now behind the scenes that will eventually happen regardless. I believe because the energy dynamic is changing, the energy being brought in now is breaking down old systems and then it needs to rebuild something new, but it has to first off, break down the old. The first thing that I want to share with you is that understand this as a part of a process.

This purge is a part of a process. For example, have a lot of toxicity in your body, let's say that you smoked for 2030 years and you ate very unhealthy for a long time and you're like, okay, I'm going to get healthy now. Then what you do is you decide, okay, I'm going to stop smoking cigarettes. I'm going to stop eating, I'm going to stop doing all this stuff. It's not like the next day you're just completely 100% healed. There's a process to it. There's the stuff that gets brought up. You may be going through a few withdrawals, you might be going through and releasing some things in your body, talks in, sweating it out, maybe go into a sauna or something like that. But there's a general process to it because it's one of the natural healing processes.

Really what is happening on earth right now is there's a healing process going on. But in order for that to happen, we must confront the things that have been deeply hidden. Some of the things that I believe have been deeply hidden is that there have been certain people that may do very dark things in order to keep people in a sleep mentality so that they can have the power. These are some celebrities. These are some people that we probably are aware of. I think that what's happening now is a lot of these people are in a way they call it, you know, do your own research with the stuff that I'm sharing with you. I know I'm never telling people exactly what to believe. The research that I've sown is seen that there are some people that may be going through some type of mass arrest to these people that have done bad things.

Maybe it is happening, maybe it's not happening. Go within yourself and to see what resonates with you. But that is what I believe is happening also right now in the background. The first thing to remember is that there is a massive purge going on in this purge means that it's bringing up the subconscious things so that we can be aware of them. Then what we can do is we can just simply let them go. Every night before I go to bed, I write down, I write that stuff of this stuff I'm going to talk about. I'm like, what was number two again? The second thing I want to talk about is, is not giving your power away. If you watch the news and get afraid, then realize you're giving away your power, you're giving it to the news, you're giving it to whatever you're focusing on.

Here’s the other thing I want to talk about. If you are looking to be saved. Like for example, with this whole mass arrest thing, there's a lot of people that are looking to something like, you know, I'm not endorsing anything. I'm not saying this is true, this isn't true. Do your own research. But there are people that are saying there's a group of people that are helping like an Alliance almost that's helping to bring all this stuff to fruition. The thing to remember though is even to that toe, give away your power. Just be aware that there's maybe different stuff going on, but also be aware that whatever's happening on the outside, there's energy dynamics changing. There are literally people that have done very bad things that have kept things under the radar, losing their power. But the thing to also remember with this is what is this reflecting back to you?

What I mean by this is just like the collective belief systems are breaking down. What individual belief system is breaking down. You might be home right now, you might be around certain people that maybe you feel like bring stuff up within you. Maybe there's a purpose to that. Maybe it's bringing stuff up. One of the side effects of what's happening right now is so many people are home. Because there it's actually could be a positive side effect because people aren't going out and necessarily like imagine you start to go down a rabbit hole of learning about the way reality works. There's a massive spiritual awakening happened on the planet right now. Imagine that you come up to some type of conspiracy theory and then if you were to go out to a friend, go into a bar with friends and tell them, they may be like, that's weird.

What are you talking about? Then you stop researching it. But now you might be at home for two or three weeks and you've got more time to go down that rabbit hole to see what does resonate with me. What's happening right now as people are doing their own research, they're going within to see what really resonates with them. The interesting thing is that so many people are going through a spiritual awakening right now because there are no other distractions. There are no sports to distract. There's the news. But after like three weeks of hearing the same thing on the news, eventually, you start to, even them people are questioning that. Are these numbers actually legit? They hear that there are people that are saying that they had that but they're like, no, this person died of this yet they marked it like this as if it was the thing that's going around.

It's very interesting. But the thing is don't give away your power. See how and see what this has to do with you. See what this has to do with your own belief systems, your old power structures. Maybe there are certain ways you do things. I'm in my own life. I'm the way that like kind of how I work and how attached I really, I've become a lot aware of how attached I am to certain things. Like going to the gym for example. You know, now I run around my neighborhood and stuff to get my energy out because I have a lot of energy, but I'm realizing how almost attached I am to certain things. How sometimes that might actually be an unhealthy thing if I'm attached to it in like a negative way. It's kind of foods that I eat.

You know, I'm becoming more aware of a lot of different things, but it's helping me to remember that this is a process of not just to collect it, not just things falling apart in the collective and reforming but also individually. Remember that as well. But take your power back. If it is like some type of group that's doing this, don't give your power away to them. Just be aware and don't be afraid. Be aware of the fear is there. This also would be connected to a lot of those stuff going on in Hollywood with that one guy, the Harvey guy or whatever. But if you, if you look to all of this stuff, you'll see that yes, it could be a little bit dark. You could be aware of it. But observe it, don't feed it your energy. Don't be afraid because then that is actually the opposite of what is this is about right now. This is about really tapping your own power, making maybe some choices about yourself that make you think about yourself differently. The third thing I wanted to talk about is discernment. The other day I was watching something by a guy that actually, you know, by a guy that I've seen the talk, you know, he's got a lot of insider information and I won't say his name or anything, but he's somebody that, you know, he's somebody that is definitely well known in the, in the community of like spiritual awakening type information.

He went on a live and made a very big claim about something that may happen, which would actually be very cool if it did happen because it would mean that there's like an acceleration of this whole mass wrestling happening. I kind of jumped on board and I was like, Oh, this sounds like it was such a bold claim. It had to do with like, saying that somehow phones and internet would like to stop for two or three days while they do all this stuff. He said it was such confidence and he said it like, he really had like five, six sources telling him and I thought it was very interesting, but I didn't go on like Instagram and I talked about it. I was like, this is very interesting, who knows if this will happen to it? I tell people, do your own research. I recommend to do your own research. Don't take my word for it, don't take someone else's word for it. See what resonates with your biggest sources inside of you. However, when I heard this, I was like, Hmm, this is interesting. I said that and then I looked at it as the next day and I was like, you know, I should have had more discernment not to, just to jump on.

Even though I never told people this is true, this is going to happen. I was telling people that if it does, don't be afraid because it actually means that there's actually good stuff going on in the background. It's just so that they can like move ahead with that. But then I realized like I need to have more discernment for myself. I'm not quite sure 100% that resonated with me. It was just kind of exciting at the time because of the way that it was, the way that it was talked about and stuff. There was such a flood of people talking about it and I just thought it was interesting cause I don't, I want also to help the people that listen to me, I wanted to like give them, give them a piece of information that maybe I have from picking out so much different type of research. But then I realized it's really is a time of discernment, be aware of what really resonates. The next day I went on and I made a post and I was like, yeah, you know, I don't know if that actually resonates with me. I posted it and I told you to do your own research so I wasn't claiming it anyways, but I want to go more within myself to have my own discernment.

There's a lot of these different things going around, this information spreading very quickly. The keys to go within and to not give away your own power and to really think critically here. To me, that doesn't really seem that practical now that I think about that. People would still be able to make like, you know, emergency calls and stuff like that, but just in general, that doesn't resonate with me necessarily. Maybe it does happen. It'd be cool if it did because it would mean a lot of good stuff is actually happening for those three days. This is about being aware of your own power. This is about being aware of your own discernment. This is about knowing that this is a part of a process, but how can you go deeper within yourself to see how you can raise your vibration? If you haven't seen yet, I do have a meditation that we did on January 1st on. It has to do with raising our vibrational set point, a dominant vibration permanently.

How to Set Boundaries without feeling guilty

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I swear it's like everyone is draining my energy. It's like how much can they get out of me and it leaves me feeling tired and like I just don't have the energy for myself to take care of me. But yeah, sure. Welcome back to another blog. Today, you're going to learn exactly why people are draining your energy plus how you can set boundaries, not feeling guilty is the way that this works is a, a lot of people that go through a spiritual awakening will go through a part where, or just in general, people in general that are going through the process of doing their own work, of becoming aware of how they can transform their own lives. You'll find, and these people will find that once they start doing that, many other people will start to attach themselves to their energy.

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They'll start to almost in a way get something energetically from the people that are doing the work or from just people in general. What happens is then the people that are giving it and a lot of times people that are given it want other people to be happy. They're doing it with great intentions. What ends up happening though is those people that are giving the energy end up feeling drained and like they don't have the energy for themselves. I know that when I went through my awakening process and I started doing the inner work, I noticed that people started to really gravitate to me and in a way, they would come to me for certain things. I remember I had some friends that would come to me anytime they were having relationship issues and then they would want me to talk them into feeling okay about it.

There were people that would come to me for advice, for motivation. Things weren't working out. Even to this day, I'm becoming aware of how to have better boundaries because I find that sometimes I give too freely and I end up feeling drained and I need to be aware of filling up my own cup before I actually give it to other people. This is something that I'm definitely becoming more aware of now as well. However, the thing that I've learned that's changed everything for me is learning why I feel drained in the first place. If you figured out why it makes it so much easier to understand how you can reset these boundaries without feeling guilty. We'll talk about as well, why do people feel guilty when they start to set boundaries? The intro that you saw the metaphor of that is a lot of times people may come in and they may say, Hey, can I have some of this?

What happens is we, out of politeness, we say yes and then maybe they grab one of our cans of motivation or our bottles of motivation, but maybe they didn't get used to it. They continue to grab the different bottles of motivation until there's almost none left inside of your fridge. That happens for a lot of people. They will give their energy freely and then find that they feel drained in the process. Then that's why do I feel drained? Well, why did you give away those bottles knowing that you needed those bottles for the next couple of days? You got to go to the store and you got to get some type of bottle to fill back up your fridge rather than of keeping what you needed until the next time you went to the grocery store. That's a metaphor for how this process works.

Let me share with you first off, what are boundaries? What are the boundaries? These are is actually what boundaries are. I made this little thing right here. Boundaries are there is what you allow and then there is what you do not allow. These are the boundaries. Allow what we don't allow. You already have some type of boundaries. If somebody were to come into your house and start beating you up or beat up your dog or something like that, you'd be like, no, that, that is where I draw the boundary. I do not allow that. But for some reason what happens is we get so used to people, us treat us a certain way that we allow that we say no to this, but we say yes to this and once we start to say yes to something, we then start to assume that that is what we are worthy of.

Do we start to assume that that's what we must do in order to be loved? See, there's a deeper aspect here. There's a deeper aspect and one of the reasons that we may allow people to walk on us is because we want their acceptance or their approval. We want our friends to like us. Have you ever felt guilty when your friends want you to come out and you find it hard to say no, even though you know you might want to go out? For me that for a long time, that was something that I had to really learn to deal with because when I went through my spiritual awakening, people were so used to having me around, you know, before my spiritual awakening, I would drink a lot. I would smoke weed and I'd have friends that I will go and do that with. Then I go through spiritual awakening and I start meditating.

I started feeling completely different. Those things don't interest me the same the way that they used to. Then people would ask me to come out and I'd be like, out of a pattern, out of expectation. I'd be like, okay. I would go out and I would end up feeling drained. Even though I'm in the back of my mind while I'm there, I'm like, I don't really want to be out right now, but there's some type of obligation in a way. I wanted to be accepted. I wanted to still be liked. They expected me to be a certain way and I was doing my best to uphold that. Even though deep down I didn't really feel like going out and doing that. You want to come to my house, we can do meditation and stuff. I'm down for debt, but going out and drinking and stuff.

Of course, there's always balance here. I'm not saying that that's even to this day, it's the only thing I like doing is sitting around meditating. Maybe it is, but in general, what do you allow over here and then what do you not allow over here? The thing is at a certain point we decided, okay, I guess I'm going to allow this. Then our friends are like, oh they allow this, this is okay. Then what happens? Like, say a friend talks you into going once. Like yeah, I don't know if I want to go like just go, come on, you know you want to go. Or like deep down. Like could it be like the old-time, just come have a beer with the boys, you know what I mean? Or something like that. You're like, okay, I got, I'll go and then you go.

Then what happens is every single time after that they're like, Hey, they already agreed to go a couple of times ago. I know I can get them to go again. Then they're on their friend's phone with friends later and they're like, yeah, this person might not go. He's like, Oh, that you went last time. I'll talk him into it again. Then they see that as the opportunity and then what happens is the next time you say no, you're going to feel rude in polite and you're going to feel, and then you're not going to want to let them down. Then if they let them down, what if they don't talk to you for two weeks or something? What if they don't act like you the same way they used to like you? Do you see how that works? That's what happens when I'm talking about boundaries.

What are your boundaries? Here's the crazy thing you want to hear. The crazy thing about boundaries, this is the part that's very hard to swallow, okay? Like that bottle of motivation. You've got to swallow that yourself. That's hard to swallow when it comes to boundaries. Do you want to know whose fault this is? Do I know we, it's our fault? It's your fault. It's my fault. It's the person that feels drains fault because they agreed and said, yes, you can take this, you can have this. Until we realize that it's our responsibility to say no to someone else taking our bottles of motivation until we realize it's our responsibility. We will remain in a story that says, other people are doing this to me. I don't have free reign over my own energy over my bottles of motivation other people do, and the moment we're in that frame and we're using that excuse or story is the moment we give our energy way even more.

The hard, the cold hard truth about this is that we must take responsibility for our own energy of what we allow versus what we don't allow. We must not allow others to take our energy if we aren't already 100% or willing deep down to do that. Deep down you may have been thinking, Hey Eric, can I have these bottles and motivation and I would have it in my mind like, well I don't go to the store for another three days. I need one of those a day at least. Then they proceed to take three of them. I've got to go to the store today. That metaphor is exactly the way it is. Many people do it. The reason people are draining your energy is that you're letting them because at a certain part in the past you decided that it is okay for you to allow them to and you didn't.

You've allowed them to over here and you didn't draw the line. If you draw the line, you're going to look like a rude person. You don't want to be rude and you don't want to be rejected. You don't want to lose their love and acceptance. Do you see how that works? That is the key to this whole process. Why do you feel guilty about setting boundaries? Do you want to know why you feel guilty about setting boundaries? Because you feel responsible for others. You feel responsible for their problems. They come to you with their relationship issues. I know people that people, anytime they're having relationship issues or certain people they go to and they just want, and here's the thing, eventually you end up enabling people. I've realized this in my own life when it comes to sometimes, let's say some people in my life don't, aren't good at finances, so they looked at me and like errands, great at finances, look at him, he's successful and they're like, Hey Aaron, can I ask them money?

Then guess what happens? I give them money. Once I get the money, guess what? They just keep coming to me and now they feel like the I, I become the source of their security. Then eventually what I had to do is I had to set the boundary and say, you know what? I can't keep doing this because I'm enabling you. Instead of you having your own power to figure this out, I am taking away your power and I am giving you something that's making you feel better for a period of time, but then you have to come back to me and now you have thought that I am the source of the abundance. When you are actually the source of the abundance, I will teach you and show you how to tap into your own source, but I will not keep giving you from my source because then I end up feeling drained and used.

You see, this is it. When I was giving like that in the first place, you want to know what it was. I thought responsible. I'm like, Oh, well you know I love you. I want you to be happy. I want to fix your problems. I'm also someone deep down that tries to fix things all the time. I get it from my dad. Thanks, dad. I tried to fix things, do something wrong with people. I want to fix them. I want to help them. I want people to feel good too. This goes so far that I end up that I end like completely taking on other people's emotions and stuff. Other people feel negative emotion. What did I do? Did I cut? Is there anything I can help you with? I didn't do anything wrong but still, I want to help you feel better, but what I'm realizing is that I am not responsible for other people's pain.

I am not responsible for other people's unresolved emotional issues. You are not responsible for your friend's relationship issues. You are not responsible for getting your other friends motivated. You are not responsible for helping other people to get some way to be like you. You're not responsible and once you realize you're not responsible, you won't feel so guilty. When you realize that you are stealing from them. You are stealing their power and you are becoming the source and it's draining you but also your net. You're enabling them to continue to use you as their source. Let me share with you one quick example. I've shared this a couple of times before. This may be a repetitive story. I do a lot of videos. It happens. I went recently with a friend with a couple of friends to red rock in here in Las Vegas.

We went hiking and there was this cave as the top of red rock. Once we got up there and this cave, you kind of had to jump to get to, it wasn't as easy to get to. Well, I was with some friends and what happened is I get up there and then one of my friends is kind of afraid to get up there because she's afraid of heights. Then what happens is she's with her husband, who's one of my best friends and she's like, Oh, I am scared. She started freaking out a little bit. I was like, Hey, just take my hand. Just take my hand. I will get you up. Then she's like, no, I'm not going to take your hand. And I'm like, why? Why don't you take my hand?

I kind of felt rejected. Like, why wouldn't you take my hand? I just want to help her up and everything will be good and she'll get her out of pain and then she's like, no. It becomes like a five-minute thing where she's like, no. Like trying to get up and then she gets up and I'm like, why wouldn't you just take my hand? I just wanted to pull her up. At that moment, I realized that I had this selfish desire to pull her up so that I could get the emotional payoff of feeling like, yes, I just added value. I am worthy. Somebody needs me. I was the hero because there's a selfish motive there that gets off on giving and helping other people. Because I'm a fixer. I just get off on fixing little problems. There's a problem, let me fix it. That's a pattern that I became. I'm starting to become aware of in my own life where I'm always trying to help people, always trying to fix people. I wanted to become the source of her solution subconsciously not knowing that it's because then I would feel more worthy. Why? Because I have somehow made a rule to myself that if I do something like that, then I can be worthy. Instead of knowing I am worthy of just being me. I don't need to please other people to make them happy. I am worthy of just being me. I am worthy. Whether I give people relationship advice or not, I don't need to give it.

I am worthy and loving whether I give people money or not. Actually, I probably even more powerful if I empower other people to create their own abundance from their own source within themselves instead of becoming their source. You see, this is how it works, so this is exactly what I share on this YouTube channel as well. By the way, if you haven't subscribed to the YouTube channel, subscribe, turn on notifications. I've got a lot more videos coming out that will show you these different shadow aspects of ourselves. Videos that help empower you to become the best version of you. That's exactly what we do here. We let go of responsibility. Realize you can draw the line of what you allow, what you don't allow. Do not allow people to walk on you to take your energy. Understand that as you draw those boundaries, the only reason you would feel guilty at all is if you take responsibility for their energy, for their happiness, and once you realize that you just really want their love and acceptance, you can give yourself that love and acceptance you crave and then you won't feel guilty, so the next time you do it, the first time you do it that you draw that boundary.

It may feel kind of weird. You may feel kind of guilty at first, but keep reminding yourself, no, this is my true power. This is what I'm worthy. This is what I feel like doing and don't feel guilty if people try to guilt-trip you into it. If they try to guilt-trip you, then that's on them. That's something they need to deal with. You don't need to agree to it. But remember, the main key of this is knowing that you've allowed it. Once you know that, then you could take responsibility for it and then get rid of the story that people always do this as well. Let's say the thing as well. Get rid of that story. There's a lot that goes into this. A lot of people that watch videos on boundaries may get value out of an understanding. Narcissists and people that kind of have control over you. I have a whole series on that. I'll go ahead and link it right here. Go to check that out. It's on narcissists and sociopaths how to, why they don't get their karma, and also how to take your power back. That'll help you just in life in general and many different ways.

The Great Awakening and the Hidden Agenda Behind The Scenes

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There's a lot of things going on behind the scenes. We could call it in a way, hidden agendas about this great awakening that's happening right now. I want to share with you my perspective on this. Things that may completely change the way you look into the outer world, the way you see what's happening right now, and that opened up a whole new possibility for what's really going on.

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Today, I'm going to be sharing with you something that's going to be a little bit more of one of those deeper rabbit hole type issues. I've made a couple of videos now that talk about what is called the great awakening, which is something that I believe is happening right now. There are many different dynamics going on that once you start to become aware of these patterns, everything that's happened in the world, everything with the media, everything with the fear that you see, it starts to look completely different when you start having an and seeing it from these other perspectives.

In this blog, the one thing I want to say is that the main thing I encourage you to do is to do your own research, to go within yourself and to see what resonates. I'm not here to say that I'm an expert at all this. However, since 2012, I went through my awakening. I learned about a lot of these things that I'll be sharing with you, but I kind of put it in the background because, to be honest with you, some of it's pretty dark. Like some of the things that I'm going to share with you in this blog are a little bit dark and a little bit hard to believe. I think sometimes with this sometimes truth and what's actually going on in the world, maybe a little bit stranger than actual fiction is pretty crazy. However, I've kept getting that.

There's actually a story. I met my buddy house, Drew. He is a buddy of mine. I'm at his house in San Diego right now and there's all this stuff going on and he had somebody here yesterday. There's a story I want to share with you that kind of reaffirmed some of what I'm going to be sharing with you today. But, I have to give it a little bit of groundwork before I share that with you. Otherwise, it won't. None of this will make sense. But in general, here's what's happening on the planet in my opinion from my own research. What I encourage you to do is do your own research. But right now, on the planet, what is happening is the vibration is increasing. What's happening is normally there are people, I believe we call them elite people, that have kept people the masses in a level of fear and anger for a very long period of time.

When people are in fear, in anger with the media, with everything that's going on in the outer world, what happens is when people are in fear or anger, they are much easier to control and they are more likely to look for certainty to authority. They're more likely to look, to be told to being told what to do for safety. The idea is for thought for a very long time on the planet, there's been a desire to keep people in fear and anger like mentality because when they're much easier able be controlled. As that scale of consciousness that you've seen my share in mini videos before, it's called the levels of consciousness we have at the bottom. Shame, fear, guilt, anger, neutrality, reason, love, joy, peace, enlightenment. What happens is the more we raise our vibration as a collective, the more aware we become and the more powerful we are.

What's happening right now on the planet is so many people are waking up. The vibration is increasing so much that the people that want to remain in power and to be doing the things behind the scenes that they've been doing for a long time, they are having to pull through these, these scenarios. They're having to pull their last cards and doing things that affect the collective to keep the collective back into this kind of dumbed-down, anger, fear state. When we talk about that of what's happening in the world, there are a lot of things that actually maybe do your own research with this, but I believe there are a lot of things that are actually orchestrated to look a certain way because when people are in those fearful states, they're much easier to able to be controlled. The thing I want to say is that the six mains, they're the media, what we call the different media stations, any of them, six major corporations own all of the media.

First off, you may notice that the media, 99.9% of anything you have ever seen on the media ever has most likely been completely negative, fearful from something that's come happened in a very small part of the world. It’s just always been that way, but we're so used to it that we don't question it. It's like, Oh, this is just the way it is. They just naturally have things that are negative. That's what's out there in the world. Then we see these things on the, on the news and we assume this is the way the world is. There's something to be fearful. Even though for years it was shown what's happened in the Middle East and stuff like that. And is it, it's not something that's happened outside our front door, but yet we think that is what we need to be fearful like that.

The first thing I want to say is that now the way that this system of people works, and like I said, do your own research with that, but there are what we call elite people that work behind the scenes. These elite people also have certain celebrities that they are connected to. I know this sounds out there to a lot of people listening right now, but I promise you I wouldn't be sharing this if I didn't think it was really going on. Trust me. It sounds like a conspiracy theory, but these things are being come and showing more and more. There's more and more evidence says as time goes on. These elite people who are very, very wealthy, who have a lot of power, what they've done is in a way they orchestrate certain events out in the mass consciousness, certain events that then keep people in fear.

One thing that they do though is they use this system to where what they do is they think to themselves, well, what could we do to get a mass amount of people to agree to have some form of vaccination? What is the one thing that we could do if we were to be in fear, what would happen is then they'd be more likely to agree to something if it met safety for other people? What if there was this thing that was unleashed into the world that then got people into a big state of fear, and then they were quarantined into their houses and they couldn't leave their houses and they crave safety. They'd be more likely and open to doing something like vaccinations. It's a very interesting idea, but the idea is a problem and then a solution.

The problem is now everyone's afraid to even go outside. What is the solution? Bill Gates has all these billions of dollars and he's great. But what's really going on and what a lot of people may not know is that these vaccines wouldn't be positive things. They wouldn't actually be things that really helped people. What Bill Gates is doing is he's a part of some type of agenda with these vaccinations. Maybe he's in too deep and there's not a way he can get out of it, but these vaccines would have a different type of technology in it would have different types of things in it to where when they went into our bodies or into people's bodies, it had a certain effect on their consciousness and then it kept people more in these states.

One of the reasons they're pulling out cards like this right now is because the consciousness of the planet is continuing to raise. It's like, what can we do? What can we do to get people back into this state? Into the fearful state because in those fearful negative states, they're more unaware and the much easier to control, which means that you can do a lot of things behind the scenes. It means that you can get away with a lot more. I believe personally from the research that I've done, that what Bill Gates is doing is he's not some good guy that's just some computer guy that's now into vaccinations. I believe that there's more going on behind the scenes than we're aware of. But like I said, do your own research with this.

When we talk about elite takedown as well, now there is this thing that's been going on when it talks about like the whole dark stuff that's been coming out with Hollywood and stuff like that as well. Part of this also has to do, I've been hearing this for a while and it's not that I didn't believe it.  I've heard of this. It's just so hard to believe. It's actually pretty sad with what's happening with some of these elite people when it comes to these children. Many of these children may, I'll tell you a story about this as well, so it sounds crazy, but there are many kids that may be an underground facility that is kept there against their will that is used for their energy in a way because their energy is so pure and their energy is so potent that their energy is used in some of these elite people's own favor.

I'll just say now that sounds pretty out there and I understand that. However, there are many people that have talked about this. One of the things though that happened yesterday is I come to my buddy Drew's house. There is a lady there who is going around the house and she's like doing things with electricity, with EMS and she's like helping to kind of facilitate his house to make sure that it's best for an editor, you know, energy for reducing EMF. She says that this interesting thing happened. She knows somebody that is a nurse and this nurse says that right now there are, they have extracted, somebody has extracted over 1200 kids from an underground facility, some to the underground base, and these 1200 kids are now being treated in some type of hospital. These kids were freed from some type of underground structure that were kept against their will and right now they're being treated now.

That's what I was hearing for a long time, but now there's somebody that I'd actually met that says that she knows somebody would. That's the case and it lines up perfectly from what I've been hearing. There's also many people in the army or not, not even just in the army, but the Marines, different government factions that have said that they've been training for the last couple of years to invade underground facilities, to do something for some type of operation. I believe what may be happening, is there certain factions at play that are going into extract these kids from these underground facilities to save them? That's what I believe may be happening. But like I said, do your own research on this. Part of that though is the elite, you know, this what right now what's happening is a lot of shadows, a lot of things that are in the collective consciousness to come into the surface.

When we talk about this, he has to do with understanding that there are different elements at play. A lot of these elite people that have power for a long time, I believe we're going to begin losing their power. I believe it's happening right now. There are different factions of what we could call the light and dark and there are many different in-betweens. This isn't just good and bad, but there are very negative elite people that have done very negative things that have gone under the radar, that have had a lot of power for a long time. You really have to do your own research on this. I'm just kind of look it up. I think there's a lot more going on than we know. You know, even when we talk about what's going on right now, there's been stuff that has come out that have said, you know, there's certain media that got caught putting in using photos from in an Italian hospital and their newspapers saying, look how packed it is. Look how much it's going out of the world.

Look at these hospitals are so full when in actuality there are also people that have been quoted for breaking into hospitals that are completely empty. Nobody is in there at all. But what they're doing is they're packing a lot of people into certain hospitals that it looks way worse than it actually is. There are also people that have had people they know pass away that did not have what's going on right now in the world, but yet they were marked as having what's going on. If I say the word on YouTube, it doesn't, help. I don't say it. But, I think numbers have been inflated. I think that a lot of things are being exaggerated. It's being shown, it's been proven. What is there to hide? What is there? Why is that happening? Everything. I think that eventually there'll also be a financial system reboot eventually as well. Part of the great awakening is knowing that a lot of these negative things that are happening in the world, it's coming up to the surface to be cleared. The most powerful thing that you can do is to focus on you and to raise your own vibration, to meditate, to observe, to have neutrality with this, to be able to observe your thoughts, observe what's happening in the world, and to focus on your own vibration. If you go down the rabbit hole and study some of this for a while, that's cool.

But I recommend not getting too tied up with it because if you get too tied up with it, you'll find it has an effect on your vibration, and on your consciousness. I have to do in like small doses but I think that what's going on in the world right now, there's more going on than we can and we know. The thing that we could do is raise our vibration the way that we raise our vibrations by letting go of what no longer serves, changing up our diet is something that's very powerful to do right now, to focus on connecting to your heart. You know, we've done some very powerful live meditations. There are over a million people live all around the world doing a global meditation on April 4th and I think we should continue to do this. There are these elite people, they use a lot of what's called dark magic. They use to call it dark magic. It's a very esoteric stuff. But what they do is they put very negative things into the collective consciousness. That's why it's been controlled by Hollywood for a long time because you put out these movies that have people feel a certain way and all these negative things happen in the world.

That almost in a way makes it easier for those to be facilitated. But what's happening right now and what they do with those kids is very dark because it's also something that they use in a way to, to keep the vibration of the planet low plus using their energy. It's very dark stuff. On the other side of that is us and what we can do is use very positive things. We did a meditation where we saw positive, optimal timelines on earth and we connected to our heart and we sent energy out to all those affected. It's something that I think is the most powerful thing that we can do right now. I want to do more of those. Let me know below if you'd like to do more of those global, there are live meditations and I'm thinking of getting, you know, I've talked to Victor and Leeor and other YouTubers, what if we were all doing it at the same time?

We’d be creating a powerful change. When we did that live meditation, the Schumann resonance went from a to an astounding number and unprecedented amount because so many people were doing that meditation, not just from my channel, but from many different channels all over the world. That's the kind of effect we can have in a positive way of going on positive timelines. The intention of what's going on in the world was actually supposed to be way worse. But what happens, I think we're on a better timeline and we're doing the inner work and the best thing we can do is raise their vibration, feeling the love inside of our own heart, doing our own shadow work, letting go of it, forgiving ourselves for giving other people. All the drama that's happened in the world right now is actually very positive. I think this is a very good thing. We're becoming more aware of our power. We're taking it back by even just being aware of it. The great awakening is this elevation of consciousness that's happening on the planet. Certain people may try to stop it, but understand what we can do is remain in our power, not give away our power. Yeah. For some reason, we agree with things.

We're in our houses right now because we agree to everything that's being projected. What I'm saying is if we question our reality, that's where we start to take our power back. If we become aware of our thoughts, if we become aware of what we think will become aware of our feelings, and we start to let negative things. The best thing we can do is to do our own shadow work, to raise our own vibration. If you go down this rabbit hole, you can go down it, but be aware that it may actually lower your vibe for a little bit. Then when you're done focusing on it, then get right back into being in your own power.

Why A Narcissist is In Your Life and What To Do About it

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Narcissists will do anything they can to keep their ego surviving. That's why the key to this is becoming aware of the ego dynamics and what then you can do to stop playing the role that allows them to continue to get that self-entitlement. Today, I'm going to show you exactly what to do and why you may have attracted a narcissist into your life. We're going to be going deep on understanding the ego dynamics of narcissism. Understanding narcissism may be a few sociopathic tendencies of understanding this dynamic and it always blows me away because many of you may know some of my story with this, but when I was between the ages of seven to 15 I had somebody that was considered to be a mix of a narcissist and associate path.

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That was my ex stepmom in my life and I share that story. Sometimes I'll share a little bit more about it here. I'm sure maybe if you watch my videos a lot, you've probably heard it a couple of times. However, the thing that blows me away is when I go out in public if I meet people that have watched the channel, I get so many people that have been in a similar position where they've known maybe one someone they knew as a narcissist, maybe someone they're dating, they find themselves dating someone that's a narcissist or sociopath and it's more common than I could ever even imagine. That changed everything for me. I shared this with my dad because it's my ex stepmom.

I never got to talk to her again after my dad divorced her when I was 15 years old. I don't have to deal with her anymore. However, my dad who has my half-sisters with him, so two daughters with her, my ex stepmom, he still got to deal with her and he still deals with the different energy dynamics that go on and there are some things that I told them to do and interactive ways of interacting with my ex stepmom that has made it so much easier for him and I'm going to share with you those in this blog. First off, let's kind of define what a narcissist is a narcissist, let's understand it from a perspective that I want to share with you today. A narcissist is somebody who is emphasizing their ego and their sense of self-importance to the extent that they live on that validation.

They live on that entitlement they live on in a way siphoning the energy from their environment and a narcissist and a stereotypical way. People look at a narcissist as somebody that's always looking at themselves in the mirror, maybe somebody that always brings the conversation back to themselves. A narcissist is someone that will do everything they can to survive and survive. Not just like eat, sleep, and have shelter survive in the sense of identity for the way they view themselves and also their level of self. A narcissist in our society or just in the world, in general, is more common than I ever thought. I made one video on it. It was on why narcissists don't get their karma and in it, I talk about that. It's not what you think. It's not like they don't get their car though. You'll see what I mean by that. But I talk about the energy dynamics that go on with this. Here is the thing to understand about it when it comes to this is this is also about understanding and having compassion that helps a lot. What I mean by that, you may say, well, I'm not there yet and this person is treating me a certain way.

Why is this happening? I know it is not pleasant to be around somebody that is a narcissist or a sociopath. My ex stepmom would do anything she could to twist the truth to work in her favor. Just to give you an idea for how my brother and I had to move through this, I had to learn how to read people in a very strong way in order for me just to get by when I was in high school.Because if I wanted to go to band camp or debate tournaments, what I would have to do is pretend like I didn't want to go because if she saw at any way that I wanted to go, then she would come up with some reason why I couldn't go. It'd be because I didn't do something correctly. Just to give and kind of paint the picture a little bit. My dad and my mom divorced when I was like five or six years old. Then what happened is my ex stepmom, she came into the frame when I was about seven. A couple of years later and I always kind of had a different vibe about her. I remember I met her, I had a broken arm and I was getting my cast on. That was the first time I met her.

I still remember to this day. I remember it was just a certain level of seriousness in a, there's a certain type of energy that I definitely was aware of. What happened is my dad started to date her and after a year or two at first year or two, she was, she was really nice. Something felt off even though I was only seven or eight years old, but some did feel off. I didn't really, I didn't really feel much of a connection necessarily. But then what happened is about a year or two into it, she started to get more and more power. We were normal kids. We had like an attendance, we had a TV in our rooms. We were doing normal kid stuff. We're allowed to have friends who were riding our bikes around the neighbourhood. After about a year, she started to get comfortable and started to take back her power. All of a sudden, she tells my dad that she didn't have TVs or Nintendo's growing up therefore, we shouldn't, no big deal, right? You might look at that. That doesn't sound like abuse or anything wrong. The TVs get taken away, the Nintendos get taken away and shortly afterwards she then starts to become more of an angry person.

We start to see that more and more as we're around her more and more. She did. Anytime we didn't go to our mom's house and then come back because our parents were divorced. We didn't get in trouble for stuff. We then started getting in trouble for not putting something away from the right way and not doing the dishes correctly, all these different things. Then after a year or two, we moved to a new house and in that new house, it was being remodeled. My brother and I weren't allowed to have friends. We weren't allowed, you know, we were just allowed to go to school and come back. We were normally working outside doing yard work. We weren't allowed to watch TV at all. We were constantly in trouble for things. We weren't bad kids, we weren't, we were just kind of doing what we thought we were supposed to do. But shortly after that, it kept on progressing where if we started to be able to see, like we would get physically abused, mentally abused and, and in a way, she was running the show. My dad is a firefighter, he was gone 24 hours a day back, 24 hours a day. He kind of knew of some things, but he wasn't completely aware of the extent. But the challenge for him is how does he challenge someone like her who has all the power and who like strides on that power.

If it was something that was going on and who could my brother and I go to because eventually, we stopped going to our moms. She in a way kind of turned us against our mom and every time we came back from her mom’s we got pain, we got punished. Then eventually we were like, okay. We didn't have a relationship with our real mom for about five or six years and what happened is we would then want to go to a school activity when we eventually got to high school or you know, I was in high school, I was two years older than my brother. If we got in trouble for anything, if or if or if we just, you know, we wanted to go to something. What happened is if we didn't do something correctly, we would have to pretend it's like we wouldn't be able to go. What we'd have to do is, this is how I'd have to work it out. I'd have to pretend like I didn't want to go to band camp because if I didn't want to go to band camp then she would see that and she'd say, you're not going to band camp because you didn't do this. It would be something that it would be something really dumb. My brother and I were literally, normally this house that was being remodeled, we were living in the mother-in-law's quarters, was had a gate to the main house. We were locked out of the main house.

We had a bowl here in the morning and a TV dinner at night. We were both very skinny. We were locked out of the house most of the time during the day doing yard work. When we're inside, sometimes if we're watching one of our younger sisters that was like a toddler at the time, well we would try to do is watch a little bit of television. We'd have the thing on the last channel, the button, the last channel. One of us would watch to see if anyone is coming home and we would try to watch TV. That was our way of, you know, be able to do normal stuff. However, if we wanted to do anything and we got and they find out about that, what would happen is then we would, we would get that taken away and we'd have to pretend like, so we'd have to pretend like we didn't want it to go. I don't want to go to band camp if I had to go to band camp and I haven't been practicing and stuff like that. She like, no, you're going to band camp. You think you're not going to be on camera, you're going. That's how it was. It was a lot of control.

My brother and I really had no control at all for between seven and 15 years old and probably like eight or nine to 15 years old are when it started. But so up until the peak at 15 then my dad pretty much had no choice but to do something about it. The thing about this that was very interesting is that my ex stepmom, she would do anything she could to twist the truth in her favor. Even if something wasn't true, she'd be like, Oh, you did this or something like that. I would have to lie and say I did something I didn't do. It's like, you're not going to that band camp thing until you confess that you did this. I didn't do that though, but I would have to confess and say that I did. I'm being forced to lie about something and I would get punished in physical ways as well for things that I didn't do. But then what would happen is that the truth would get twisted around. Even now my dad still has to deal with her and he has to go to court and stuff. My younger sister Lizzie, she's woken up and she does not want to be around her mom at all anymore. My dad's, you know, she's 17 years old, so she's working on not having to see your mom anymore. It's very interesting. But my dad still has to deal with going to court with her and she will lie about anything to get the court to work in her favor. This is a mix I think, of narcissist and sociopathic tendencies. Just the reason I kind of share that story is so that you know, I'm not just reading this out of a textbook and sharing it with you.

I've seen my dad go through this and I went through it for a period of my life and I see the kind of effect that it has on people in general and I also see it, it's very common for narcissistic mothers to treat their daughters a certain way and I see that because I see the way my ex stepmom treats my younger sister and is very uncalled for. It's very much not fair, but it's very obvious that what this is. You might say, why would a narcissist be in my life? We'll understand this at first. First off, if you look at it from a spiritual perspective, we're all spiritual beings having temporary human experiences. If you study any of the ancient, if you study any of the ancient text that has been around for thousands of years, it points to this even quantum physics energy cannot be destroyed nor created. In the same way, we are energetic, spiritual beings haven't temporary human experiences. We come into this life and we come into this body and we also have an ego. This ego is what we use to navigate through this experience. The problem is that many people in this reality end up becoming overly identified with the ego and they didn't think that this is who I am. Why a narcissist may be in someone's life is there's normally a lot to learn from a narcissist.

What do you learn from a narcissist? How to take your power back, how to create boundaries, how to have compassion. What really helped with my ex stepmom is I realized that my ex stepmom was treated a certain way growing up by her dad and abused by her dad and that's why she is the way she is. She's kind of like a bully that never grew up and she was bullied when she was a kid and that's why she's a bully, so then it's easier so you might not be sold yet on that idea. I understand if you're experienced experiencing a lot of pain, you're like, yeah, I don't want to talk about compassion yet. You may just be in a place where you need you and want and need to take back your power. There are two sides of the spectrum right here. You will see on one side we have that. Let me go and move this over just a tad. You have that and you see that up. The narcissistic personality trait or even sociopathic as well will do anything they can to survive. But the problem is that while we all are here to have this experience using our ego, we also have the ability to see beyond ourselves.

That's called empathy. Being able to see beyond ourselves to be able to feel and see what other people are going through. A narcissist becomes so entrained with their own ego and self-importance that they in a way lock into that ego structure where then they need to do anything they can to survive in that, in that form. That is the thing that happens and then what they do is they didn't need to in a way tear down other people's buildings in order to feel powerful if anything starts to threaten them. Then they come in. The narcissistic ex stepmom that I had turned my dad against his own mom because she felt threatened because his own mom had the ability to influence him and his own mom, which was my grandma ended up influencing him. That ended up having a strong influence on the decision that he finally made to break up with her when I was 15 years old and then all of a sudden, my brother and how I have all this freedom, we're able to have friends again.

We're able to eat food again. You know enough food did look healthy, where a bill to go to school and not worry. I'll be honest with you as well. I totally get it. When do people say that they are afraid to leave a narcissistic relationship, and I understand like you would think like wouldn't you just want to get out and become free? But when you become, this is what I'm realizing right now. Wow, this is the big epiphany. What the person that's not the narcissistic is, does not the narcissist that's in the narcissist, his relationship with someone, that is what they get out of it is certainty and what they feel like safety. Even though they're being controlled, they feel that sense of safety. I remember that when my dad divorced my ex stepmom and we were all of a sudden, we, I mean we ended up 33 four or five of us living in my grandma's house when the divorce was happening and it was a small two, three-bedroom house and it was like packed.

But I remember the transition of that. There was something about it that felt unsafe. It's like my brother and I could do other things now, but we've, I felt like it was like, Whoa, this is almost scary. Like, who, who knows what could happen. I don't feel that sense of certainty that I used to feel. I kind of get it. But here's the thing. This narcissistic personality feeds on external energy and will siphon it from other people. Part of that siphoning is twisting the truth to make them appear greater. Part of that is taken away and making someone else feel small because then it makes them feel best. They are relying on external energy completely. They are relying on external energy and external validation because they've locked into that ego and that's where the energy is being emanated. Here's the thing, the person that's not the narcissist, most likely you reading this blog, you have magnetized that experience into your life to learn how to create a firmer ego yourself.

Like you have to be identified with it and there's this negative consequence of it. But what I mean is normally the person that is in and around a narcissist, normally what this person needs to build is a sense of self, a sense of boundaries, a sense of power to take back their power and to stop giving it away. That's what the other person can learn is how to say no with compassion, how to say no. Also, understanding that some of the characteristics, you know, that relationship with my ex stepmom turned me into a people pleaser for many years of my life. I then identified with the more I can give the other people, the more value that I get back or the more, the more I give to other people, the more than I can feel validated, the more than I could feel like I'm worthy rather than knowing I have worth just for being myself.

What the other person can learn that's in the narcissistic relationship is how to say no with love, how to be aware and how to build boundaries and how to really step into not feeling safe and knowing that that in itself is safe. It may seem if you're in a narcissistic relationship right now, it may seem hard to hear this, but understand that you can have compassion for somebody else but also understand that the most important thing is your compassion for yourself and I understand it can be hard. It's easier for me for example, to never have to see my ex stepmom again than it is from my sister who that's her, her real mom and I see how she's challenged sometimes cause she's like, I don't want to be seeing my mom and you're and I want to be around her. There's part of her that I imagine still wants to have a relationship with the parent, but this is the thing.

It's about understanding that that situation is there because of the part being played. The karma that I talk about in the other video, which you can click below to check out the karma that I talk about is the reason that karma is in place and it doesn't seem like this person is getting their karma is because there are people that are still balancing out the scale and playing the other side of it. There's somebody that's in a way playing the part of letting it happen, of feeding that energy. Here's the thing about a narcissist. You want to know how to deal with a narcissist. This is what you do. Narcissists and sociopaths, they feed on negative resistance. They need something to hook onto. If they don't have something to hook onto, then they aren't being fed. That's literally how it works. They feed on that energy, so for example, let me, let me share with you like my ex stepmom, she would have to talk us down or like argue with us and then if any, if we would argue back at all, then she'd have something more to feed on.

This is what I told my dad to do. This is the way you deal with the first off. Realize that you can have compassion for them. They do not know how to respond to compassion because it is so far outside of the way that they view the world because they have trouble seeing beyond themselves. What happens is they're seen focused only on them, focused only on them. What happens is when you're able, and the thing is that when we got an alert that the other people on the other side is learning how to see the beyond the self we already have done. But to see the self, the value in the self. The thing to do though, when you're around these people, it's what I told my dad to do. My dad was going to these mediation things for awhile with my ex stepmom.

The funny thing is any mediation, any therapists or anything that they ever go to, it never lasts. Because eventually, the therapist won't deal with my ex stepmom. She then has some excuse to why she won't deal with it anyway. She's never found somebody to that that can work with it consistently. My dad's easy. My dad will talk to anybody I can see as well. The thing that my dad is learning his boundaries and how to be in his own power. Here is the thing and here's what I told him to do. One time going to that mediation thing. He was going to the mediation thing and every time you went what would happen is they would sit in the waiting room and then what she would do is she would just start bickering to him. Just start tearing him down, just start yelling at him in public, it is therapist office. She would do that every time. My dad would go and my dad would just sit there and then my dad would get in these arguments with her and it was just completely unprofessional. It'd be in public is completely uncalled for and what would happen is one time I told him, I said, he did realize that she feeds on that reaction. If you don't feed her, she can't.

She has nothing to play with. I said, try this. The next time you go, just sit there and as she's, as she's complaining to you, just sit there and just smile and pretend like she's not even there. Not smile, not smile, like mock her. Make her feel bad. Just smile and sit there and pretend like she's not there. This is what happened. He did that one day. You probably didn't do it for a couple of times because he probably thought it would be kind of weird, but he ended up doing it. He went there, he sat down, she came, she started bickering, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, and public and you just sat there with a smile on his face. Didn't even look at her just like this. You want to know what happened after about a minute or two, she just, she could not even stand in that energy. She left, didn't even stay for the appointment they had. She left. She could not be in that energy. If you don't feed them energy by arguing or give them resistance, then they can't take your power and they don't feel powerful, they won't be able to deal with it. The best way you can deal with it is to stop feeding them by becoming aware of your own energy and doing it with compassion.

All of this stuff does it with compassion and love. We're all here. They're literally, I believe in society to help balance out and to help teach other people how to really be powerful. There's always something to learn. You know, I have the ability and have such a passion for helping other people break out of their own belief system, break out of their limitations because of the pain I went through with my ex step-mom. It actually served me in a positive way. The thing I want to share with you is that's what you can do, is to stop feeding them, to have compassion and to understand that you can develop your own power, your own boundaries and that once you do, you will no longer magnetize those kinds of relationships.

Use The MAGIC of Detachment to Attract Love & Relationships

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What I'm about to share with you is counter-intuitive to almost everything you've been told about manifestation, about creating your own reality. However, I would say it's the one major difference that will completely transform your life. If you begin to apply it, this will make you more attractive. This will make you have more magnetic energy and this will have love chase you instead of it being the other way around. Today, I'm going to be sharing with you the magic of detachment and letting go and how when you trust this and you do this, it then gravitates things towards you and I'm going to share this not only for my own personal experience, just in general. You can use this by the way, for anything. You can use this for love.

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You can use this for abundance. You can use this to get a new job or attract something, anything that you want, you can use this to attract. The thing to understand about this is that you have the ability to generate the emotion inside and the feeling inside without needing any external thing to feel a certain way. The reason this is important to understand is that any time we want something else, we chose something else. We are saying that I don't have that within myself. One of the biggest desires there is within humans, in general, is to feel connected. The moment we say I want that, we are actually emphasizing our separateness. You see, the more we raise our vibration and our level of consciousness, the more we realize we are everything we are at all. Why would I want that over there when I realized I am that over there?

Do you see it has to do with understanding a larger scope of consciousness? That's what I'll be sharing with you in this blog. This is why it makes such a big difference. First off, it's understood that we think in the form of mental pictures. We think in the form of mental pictures. Some of these mental pictures, not everyone's completely visual, but we think in the term of mental pictures and when we think of things and we want something, maybe we want a goal or something. We infuse all these other mental pictures that we have about why we can't have it, why we can have it. The kind of person that we attract. All of these different mental pictures go in place and then that creates resistance. This is about becoming aware of those mental pictures. This is about understanding that anything we are attached to, we are creating resistance around.

There have been times in my life where I realized that if I really want something or just wanted in general, I resist it. But if I move into that of not caring, it's almost in a way you could say as well, the more you're able to not care which way it goes, doesn't mean you're apathetic, but the more you're able to not care one way or the other, the more power you have. That's why letting go of the outcome signals abundance. Think about that too. Letting go of the outcome actually signals abundance. If you are around someone else that you're attracted to and you're like thinking of every little thing you're going to do and you're like, Oh, am I doing this the right way? Am I going to say this the right way? You're going to feel stifled. You're going to feel resistant, you're going to think too much and overthink things and subconsciously the other person's going to be able to feel that energy off of you.

However, if you were to let go and not care, you'd give yourself a lot more permission to just be yourself. When you are just being yourself and you are unapologetic about what people think about you, that is attractive. The reason that's attractive is that it shows that you're not trying to approve. You're not trying to get approval from someone else. Sometimes people want to attract love because they want to feel that love from someone else. They want to PR. They want approval from someone else. Because here's the tricky, insidious thing. If somebody wants approval or love, if they want it, it means they are saying they are separate from approval in love. It's maintenance. They're saying lack. Remember, if you desire it, you lack it. If I want to do this over there, then it means I'm not over there, but I wouldn't want to make a video right now because I am making a video right now.

If you want to completely allow love into your life like a floodgate, that just opens up and then you have so many opportunities, let go of wanting love, let it go. This doesn't mean to be apathetic, but what this means is when you feel this desire, you just literally think to yourself, can I let this desire go? Because the moment you move and you let go of that desire is the moment you will move into the having into the being love and the more you aware you're aware as well that that love is already inside of you, then the more you will embody that love. The more you realize, Oh, I kind of want approval. You can say no, can I stop desiring approval? If you stop desiring approval, you will have approval.

If you stop desiring love, you will have love. Think about this. We work really hard to become successful. We worked really hard to do this, to do that. Then we finally get it and once we get it, we feel at peace for a while. Then what happens? The mind jumps in, says, what about more? But for the wild that you feel peace. You want to know what has happened. Desire has subsided. The desire has been met, you stopped desiring and then felt satisfaction. Do you see the change here? Do you see what that is? What if you could instead let go of the desire now and know that when you let go of the desire, now that's when you're in contagious energy. That's when you're unapologetic. When you're not trying to control things, there is no resistance. There is somebody I know that was a recently divorced and what happened is she did not want to be in a relationship anymore because she got divorced and she had, there was a lot of emotional stuff going on there and she was like, okay, I'm just going to completely be single.

She like wanted to be single and she's like, okay, I'm just going to be single. I do not want, I do not want to date. I do not want a relationship. I just want to be single because she was in the state of just being single, of not of, not wanting love, not wanting a relationship. Guess what happened? It just flooded into our life. She would get asked out like every couple of days to a week she'd get, she'd be asked out by people and it was because she had this contagious energy where she was just not attached. She wasn't in wanting, she was just a being that loves within herself of realizing, Hey, there's no more drama in my life from this divorce, so I'm just going to be happy. And like, look at all this freedom. I feel so great. Then that attracted that to her.

The funny thing is that what can happen sometimes is then somebody might decide, okay, now I want to love. Then once they want to love, they find resistance coming in. I see it sometimes with people that I may have grown up with, especially sometimes women that may be a certain age, like getting towards their thirties or 32 they just age to where then there's this like societal pressure. It's like I got to get married and have a kid and how's my time? I've seen that just with many people. This is a very common thing. The problem with this sometimes is what happens is that evokes up a desire and a wanting, which is also lacking, which also creates resistance, which then sometimes also is where then people will care what other people think because they're wanting that approval or the wanting to be accepted because they want a relationship to go somewhere, which creates resistance was actually blocked it.

The key to this is being carefree. The key to this is letting go of that desire altogether and trusting the course of your life, of realizing this as well. The vibration of wanting love. I want to love. The vibration of wanting love is different than the vibration of having love. If you already love because you are loved, because all this stuff already exists inside of you anyways, then what you begin to do is you begin to see it and attracted. It's naturally in your reality. You don't always get the life that what you want because what you want, you lack, but you always get in life that which you are. If you move from wanting to being or having, you will then perceive those things in your life. But the key is making that switch and the way you make that switch is you just let go of the desire.

The desire comes up and what happens is you let go. That does, it comes up, you're aware of it, and you just say, can I let this go? Can I let go of wanting approval and just have approval? Can I let go of wanting love and just have love? Can I let go and just have, and then when you let go of the desire, you will just have, and then when you just have, you are looser, you're more fun, you're not attached to the outcome. You are the star of your own movie. Because when you want it, you're looking for that in someone else. You're looking for someone to give you that approval for somebody to give that love. But when you are the star of your art or movie, then what happens is you have a very contagious energy. People can literally feel it off of you, but as what become aware as well, use the magic of letting go to attract love into your life because you're also letting go of the stories and the mental pictures you have of what it means to get some type of result.

If when you think of some type of outcome, have you been and having love in your life and then you think of it and you desire, you look my way, I do want that. You're like, wait, Aaron, set. Just let go of the desire. It comes up, you let it go. You might also have different stories come up. Stories about like, Oh, love doesn't come that easily. The way my parents were together, they divorced and all of these things and it does it. It's all these, this resistance comes up and as the resistance comes up and brace it and let it go. There's a book called Autobiography of a Yogi by Paramahansa Yogananda and the enlightened masters you go and he talks about his process of going through enlightenment and night masters commanded tests like this. Do you want to know one of the reasons they could do that because they come at it from a high point of consciousness where they realize they are?

Everything else, in reality, is like a dream. It's more flexible because they know that it's like things just happen so easily, but also, it's because they don't desire it. They're neutral about it. It just simply is and as they let go of that and they're coming at it from a higher level of vibration, it's like things just happen easy for them, but they're also exuding so much love that people just want to be in their presence. But what this has to do with is clearing your mind, letting go. The other reason that is that they have very clear thoughts or not thoughts. They have a very clear mind. When they think thoughts are so much potency there. But you see what a lot of times when we're thinking of having love or thinking of all these little resistances and stories and pictures that come up and we want it and we desire it, which means we lack it. The key to this is simply letting go, letting go of the labels, letting go of the label of, Oh, I've always been single. Oh, I can attract this. Letting go of the labels of believing I'm not worthy.

Become aware of those and then let them go. This is the magic of letting go. I will tell you that even not just with love but that as well, but also just with my life in general. A couple of weeks ago I was making YouTube videos and as I was, I like wanted there to be a certain response from the videos I was making that was stifling my energy and I was like wanting to grow more and I wanted more, but then eventually I decided what, this is ridiculous. I'm going to let go of that desire altogether and just enjoy this process, be here while I make the videos. There have been times in the past where I was like wanting to get to the next level. I let go of that desire and also, I let go of what people thought or what people think of me and as I let go of that and just started being myself being the way I prefer to be talking about what I wanted to passionately talk about, it would explode every, every area of my life and then my energy is more carefree. I'm just sharing unfiltered. It's more attractive. It's more attractive even from a level of, Oh, this is a cool video, I like the energy of this video or something like that.

You can easily allow yourself to let go of these things by being aware of what you want and use the magic of letting go to let go of desire. When you let go of desire, you will naturally just have it. This is also why people that maybe you've seen it before were like two people in a relationship. They break up. One person may be really distraught about it, the other one, maybe like whatever it might be like ready to move on. Then what happens that one person like soaks about it for awhile. They go hang out with their friends. Then eventually maybe they go out with their friends and they start to forget about that other person when they start to forget about that other person cause he's just in his own world. He's becoming the star of his own movie again or she's becoming the star of her own movie again or whatever it, this person could feel that and then gravitates back because of that detachment of desire. There are many people that when they let go, it brings a flood of abundance because there was so much resistance for so long.

Thought about something that then it just floods in. But this requires letting go of that. Then when this person was letting go of that because maybe didn't, that person starts to also see, oh yeah, maybe that wasn't actually meant to be. Maybe it was actually bringing up a lot of negative things or whatever. Then the desire changes and then they don't desire anymore. Then there's an almost a desire on this side because of that polarization and how it works. The push-pull of polarity. But you see, this is why this is so magical. Let it go. Let go of the desire and just have it let go and just be it. When you use the magic of letting go, you'll see how it changes every area of your life. If you want to learn more about this as well, I have something that's called mind shift.

It includes that of a step by step processes, how to apply this, how to let go, how these transforms and allows in abundance and love. It's very powerful. Plus, there are meditations and there are some really cool bonuses that you get if you join right now. I've seen people get amazing results from it. The meditations alone will help you to make that inner shift within you so that changes the way you go about this. Imagine being more carefree. Imagine having more fun in the process of manifestation and imagine knowing step by step what to do, not just the theory, but like what do I actually do? Then getting the kind of result that you want so that you feel clear.