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Today, I'm going to be sharing with you the danger of "faking it till you make it", understanding of this concept that with the law of attraction, many people here and it's kind of like been thrown around a lot. It is something maybe you've heard me even say in a certain way, but there's a context underneath it that must be understood. Otherwise, we go about it in a very resistant type way.
First off, where does this notion come from? It comes from an understanding of what is called acting as if so we have something we want to experience in our life. We don't currently have it. What we do is we act as if we already do have it, which then syncs us up to that vibrational reality where that is the case.
Just this alone, there isn't anything wrong with it and with everything also understand that everything in life is a half-truth, which means it works from a certain perspective. However, there's this resistance that comes under it. When people say, you must fake it till you make it.
Let's look at that term and let's look at why that may be something that it causes a bunch of resistance. Faking it until you make it at the same time is implying that you are already not good enough. You aren't good enough. Therefore, if you can be and do something else, then he will be worthier.
You will be even better, so faking it until you make it is causing resistance because then we assume that where we are being already good, whole and complete, so the alternative to this would be being real and authentic. Understanding that maybe the facade that we have been the person we haven't been as authentic as we could be, so it's redefining the way that we see that of being fake or authentic. It doesn't mean that where we currently are as wrong doesn't mean that we need to feel resistance.
However, we are also aware of the different layers of conditioning. Caring what people think because that's not really who we are. If we're doing something to make someone else happy, that's not even really who we are anyways. That is us playing according to everyone else's rules, everyone else's expectations. There was a book that was written by Dr. Joe Dispenza, which is called how to break the habit of being yourself, and when I first saw this book title, I was at a sauna at the gym.
Someone had it and I remember thinking, that doesn't sound like something I'd want to read. Why would you want to break the habit of being yourself? However, what he shows in the book is that who we think we are is a combination of how we think, act and feel.
This is our vibration. What happens is we put on this facade, we have these layers of inauthenticity that we are remaining consistent too because the subconscious mind will always do what it can to be consistent to the way that it sees itself.
And because of that, if we remain in the bubble of the way we see ourselves will always experience that over and over and over again, but you see you are an infinite being. Even though you think you might say to yourself, oh, I can make that have $100,000 per year. You're capable of way more than that. It's about awareness.
The more aware you are, the more you see that there's more potential for you. There are more things that you can accomplish, but if you don't have an awareness of how to make more than $100,000 per year.
The more aware you are, the more you see that there's more potential for you.
You want to experience a reality that is equal to that notion in that perspective, but says you start getting within the vibrational vicinity of other people that are making more than that per year. Say you start reading books that don't give you processes for you to make more than that per year. Say, you start listening to podcasts, so you have something. You're seeing something.
You're hearing, something you're experiencing the potential of you being able to do that. That will then start to break apart the current belief system of your identity. Then you'll see what is possible for you, so for this process, it goes beyond that of faking it till you make it, because you realize that who you think you are isn't the full potential of who you are because you are an infinite beam.
However, the key to this is understanding the acceptance of where you currently are excepted. Say Yes to the present moment because if you're faking it till you make it, you aren't saying yes to right now you're saying, let me do something else. Of course, at a certain level, certain things that have been comfortable, the idea is that we say, well, that's not comfortable.
It doesn't mean that's not who you are. It just means that's not under the prior reference experiences that you've had. For example, if we always stay within a certain bubble of that self-identity and we don't branch out. I was using the analogy as a gym because it's the easiest to really understand and when you think of it like say, well, what's comfortable for me is eating the kind of food that I eat. It's not going to the gym.
It's sitting at home and saying to my house, these are all really comfortable to me. Well, it's not necessarily faking it till you make it, but it's realizing that the reason you might be afraid to go to the gym is that you're in authentically thinking and caring. What did other people think of you?
I have a buddy that's overweight and he doesn't want to go to the gym because he's afraid of what he'll be that guy on the treadmill or on the elliptical, but in actuality, that's not really even him. That's him caring about everything else. That's these layers of social conditioning. The key to this is being aware of who is who you really are and by being aware of who you really are, you get them.
See that you can let go of what doesn't serve. Something else I want to talk about in this video that I've been thinking about lately is understanding that if there's something you want to experience in your life and you're having a rough time knowing that you can do it, simply find other people that have done it and read their stories, read their biographies, read their autobiographies, read the watch their YouTube videos.
When you see someone that has accomplished something that you priorly thought you couldn't do, it breaks apart the beliefs in your mind and it shows you what is possible. That Dr. Joe Dispenza guy has a whole book called becoming supernatural and a lot of it is just stories of people that haven't had these impossible things to happen.
Like for example, they'd have. They'd be told you're going to die terminal, whatever cancer. There's no way that you're going to live from doctors. That's what they told this person, and yet they chose not to believe it and they went beyond the ordinary, beyond the natural-supernatural and what they did is they primed in and wired in that they could do it and somehow, they were able to do it.
They were able to do things that were impossible. When you may have some type of a health issue or something and you see someone else that's done it, just simply seeing them that's done, it will start to break apart your own belief system because then you see, oh, if they can do it, then maybe I can too.
The key is then looking to our beliefs about what we believe about ourselves. And a lot of times we'll have beliefs that those don't service. It's very important when people think of me, well, I'm not going to go to the gym because they're going to be staring at me. Well, that's not even really you.
That's the belief system of maybe something that you've even acquired from that if someone else in your life, maybe your parents felt the same way, they were afraid to go to the gym. You think, oh well I'm afraid to go to the gym, but it was just an unconscious pattern that you picked up along the way.
But by you becoming aware of it, you then start to take your power back. And the key to this is understanding your beliefs. Create your reality. You will always experience in reality is equal to how you think, act and feel, and your beliefs are what perpetuates a mere reflection in your life.
If you believe that you're worthy, you have more and more people show you and reflect that you are worthy back to you. If you believe that you are able to make a lot of money and money comes easily, then that belief will be mirrored back to you. If you believe that you're lucky, then you will experience a reality that is equal to that level of luck.
What are your beliefs? And I'm not, I'm not telling you also, just so you know, I'm not telling you to pile on new beliefs. What I'm saying is just let go of what doesn't serve. Because when you let go of beliefs that don't serve you, you naturally start to be in this high vibrational state. How do you go about this process without being fake?
The key is in the most cliché thing you've probably heard me talk about, I talk about this a lot. It is following your passion. It's following your passion because the passionate feeling inside of you is who you are. It is your body telling you to do this thing. Do you feel how good this feels? This is you, and when you follow that passion, you aren't being fake. You are being who you really are because that passionate feeling inside of you is who you are, so there is no faking it till you make it.
The only time they were faking it till we make it is when we believe that we have to be something that we're not and really be something that is someone else's goal. We might say, I want to make a million dollars, but why do you want that million dollars? Not that the million dollars is bad and I'm not even saying not to do it. Be aware of why you want it and you may see that getting the million dollars isn't even what you're really passionate about, but if you have first off, your goal on what you're passionate about, then the million dollars can come.
You see people go about things backward, so they're trying to fake it till they make it. Well, they're trying to go straight to the thing that they think they want. When, if you were to go for your passion, you would enjoy the whole entire journey along the way some, I may have goals like that, but it's primarily focused on that of my passion, which means I enjoy the process, which means I'm in a high vibrational state, which means I'm not faking it because I don't have to fake it because I'm doing these videos every single day and I love making these videos and they are who I am.
Because of that, it's just a natural byproduct of that. Focus on you being the best version of you and finding out what you're passionate is because the feeling of passion is your body saying, “Yo, this is who you are.” This is who you are, and when you start to become who you really are, you'll then start to see that you can let go of all of the things that are no longer you.
The little, the little social conditioning or like, well, what do people think of me? How am I coming off to people? The thing is that isn't even you anyways. You are so much more than you can even imagine. What's an easy way to do this? Well, first off, you've got to find your passion. Set the intention to find your passion. If you don't know your passion right now, it's okay, but set the intention for you to find your passion and then you'll start to see things in your life you're going to happen.
You may be somewhere at the coffee shop or the tea shop or wherever you go and someone may say, Hey, you may hear, overhear a conversation with someone talking about something like, oh, sounds interesting. Then you follow your passion. You know that it may lead to something else, so then you go and you go read a book about it and you're like, oh, well there's this idea in a book.
I'm going to go check that out. You go to a museum or something. You learn as you go. Set the intention because the intention will show you what that is. The other thing of this, imagine the best-case scenario version of you doing what you love for a living. I imagine you in the kind of lifestyle you'd love to live. Imagine how other people respond to you. Imagine that version of you.
First off, that version of you already exists because there's an infinite number of parallel reality realities that exist. I mean this is like maybe a whole other video in itself, but the version of you already exist, so when you think, oh, I've got to create my own reality, I to go create this version of me, fake it till I make it.
It already exists. It's just about you and body and the frequency of that version of you pay attention. Using your imagination to that version of you now, how does that version of you think, act and feel because these three things make up the vibration. How does that version of you think, act and feel? What are the consistent thoughts that version of you has? What kind of people are you talking to? What kind of emotions do you have consistently? How do you feel?
What kind of things make you feel a certain way? What kind of. When do you feel a positive emotion? How are you acting as that version of you? What actions are you taking? What daily habits do you have? These three things make up that version of you. As long as that version of you is connected to your passion, you can see that.
Then what you can do is you can start to embody the passion in your life. That version of you is the more authentic version of you, but remember, you don't have to beat yourself up because you're like, I'm here and that's the authentic version of me. All you have to do is choose to start to follow your passion more and accept where you are.
We are always doing the best we can with where we are, whether we're aware of it or not because we've rationalized where we are. In order for you to become this authentic version of you, you have to first off, say yes to where you are because otherwise, you can't change it because if you feel resistance for where you are, you hold yourself where you are.
Say not where I want. Here I am. I'm not where I want to be. Anyways, the idea is that you don't resist where you currently are. You allow yourself to where you currently are going to step up to share a little bit and what you then do is you focus on how you think, act and feel, and you just focus on combining these three things with your passion.
That's what you do. Follow your passion, however, say yes to the present moment and say yes to the dress. Say yes to everything. Say yes to who you are. Understand that who you are is more than you can even imagine. When we sit within ourselves and we think that we're only capable of doing x, y, or z, that is of the old self-image, the old identity, based on prior reference experiences.
The key is to say yes to that because you don't want to resist it, but then to choose a new way of looking at it and to choose a higher level of awareness. Because when you see your life in this grander perspective, you can then see how it led you to where you need to be. Say yes to the present moment and say yes to who you are.
With that being said, something else that I have for you is the most powerful meditation that I have made for that of completing the past. This is where you become aware of the old patterns of the past, which is that social conditioning that I'm talking about. What you do is you listen to this meditation for 21 days.
You feel them and then you let them go. It's all you do, so when you do that, and then what happens in the meditation to get washed over with unconditional love and bliss, it's a very powerful meditation for that and what it does is it allows you to let go of these patterns so that you let go these levels of autism it so you start to become more who you really are.