3 Steps to Attracting Love and Having Them Chase You

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This right here is a simple process for attracting love, very easy to do. It gets you in the vibrational resonance of attracting love. I've seen it work not only in my life but other people's lives and I recently did a podcast episode with the relationship expert who shared this and I think it is super powerful and I can't wait to share it with you.

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Today, I'm going to be sharing with you how you can go about creating magnetic energy and especially being in love, having that love energy being projected out so that literally the energy dynamic as to where you have that magnetism. People literally chase you and first off, do you want to learn how to get someone to chase you? I have a podcast episode I'm going to link below on my podcast called Expand your Awareness 2.0 podcasts. I had someone named Rebecca Boatman on. She's awesome. She's a relationship expert. She helps women, specifically, women attract love into their life. In that episode, what she was sharing with me is some very powerful ways to go about this process, which is very much in alignment with some of the things I teach. But here is one of them. If somebody wants to get someone else to chase them deep down, that's a form of manipulation because they wanted to get something. They want someone to be different than they are. The thing is when you learn the energy dynamics of this though, you begin to feel freer and you give yourself the emotions of what you want to experience and then you're more a vibrational match to that reality.

Think about this, if you were to imagine the vibration, the reality where you are in a loving relationship, you have all the qualities that you want. What you may realize is that when you see that version of you, you behave a certain way, you act a certain way, you a not act, you just are a certain way and you carry yourself a certain way. What you'll find is that that's just naturally who you are. That's just naturally you. But what you realize is there's a certain energy that you have, but if you're in the vibration of wanting it, desiring it, then as you've maybe heard me say in other videos before then that means there's an emphasizing that this reality that I want is not already here. In a way, a lack that has been emphasized. One thing that she really helped me understand just in my own life is there are certain things that I happen to my past, maybe you kind of know my past with my ex step-mom situation and control and stuff like that.

Like, even after my ex stepmom left my life, I had my first girlfriend. I was always trying to control me. She didn't like me to be a certain way so that I was too loud, too outgoing. Then after I broke up with her, I got transferred to a new department and, and woman's shoes and from BP shoes to salon shoes at Nordstrom's where I used to work. It was the manager that was almost the same exact per styles. For this process, this is what you do. Oh, insert another story with you as well. I've shared it in another YouTube video, but she shared it on the podcast. It was super fun. It was actually a very fun episode as well. But this is what you do. You write down three. What Rebecca said to do, you write down three qualities of that you want in love, three qualities or values or feelings that you want. You become crystal clear as to what those three are. She said that then you know those three like the back of your hand. For example, I knew my three things weren't like I knew the opposite of it. I knew that I didn't want someone that was controlling. I didn't want someone that was super serious. But so, what is the opposite? Here's what, here's what I realized is part of the characteristics I do want. Okay? This is what I became clear to because here's the thing if you don't know what you want or you don't know what your vision is, then you won't have anything to move towards.

It's very important to understand as well. A lot of people, even just in life in general, they may not have a vision for something they're moving towards and therefore they continue to track things that maybe they don't want. I even talked about on the podcast episode below, but one of them is freedom and that's actually very common for guys. They want freedom. I think for woman value, safety a lot. The other one is playfulness and fun, playfulness and fun. I want to have that mentality. The third one is actually because I think I didn't really receive it when I was young because one of my ex stepmom was in my life. One, she was very masculine because she was very controlling and manipulative. Then we weren't allowed to see our real mom who is nurturing, but we weren't allowed to see here from seven, 15 years old because we were in a way kind of brainwashed and not allowed to really to see her in a way. Every time we'd go over to her house, my mom's house, when my ex stepmom is in the picture, we'd come back and we'd only go there for like a day or two, but then we'd be like punished. Then we eventually associated pain with going to her house. We stopped doing it.

Then after 15, we had a relationship with our mom of course, but before that, we didn't. Here's the thing, it's kind of shadowing over here. There we go. I think I always craved nurturing. I think one of the things that want is somebody that's playful and fun that gives me my own freedom that also is nurturing and, and you know, that has that mentality. Maybe because I didn't receive it as much because of the energy that the dynamics growing up and be kind of deprived of that in some ways. That those are my values. I know what that is. I didn't know what that is before. But now, here's the key. Here's the thing that changes at all. If yours was safety, if yours was a connection, if yours was maybe freedom or maybe playfulness and fun or whatever those emotions for you to be a vibrational match to that relationship, you have to first give yourself those emotions.  Get those three different things and you'll see. Like I said, the podcast episodes below. Check it out. She gives a lot of other amazing information but three things that you want values, and feelings that you want to experience and then give yourself those emotions because as you give them to you and as you realize as well, the more you work on you and the more you're on your own kind of vision, like one thing I always say is to be the star of your own movie. When you are the star of your own movie, you have magnetic energy, but when you're trying to be in someone else's movie, you're then placing yourself and not the star role. Kind of sucks to be in that role, right? You feel like you're waiting. She said this yesterday.

We were talking about this like waiting for the text message, checking your Wi-Fi to make sure maybe my wife I just went down and that's why they haven't texted backchat. But as I say as a fun episode that we did, we had a lot of fun recording it, but this is a simple process that you can apply and to feel that emotion now. Something else that really works for this as well is meditation as you will get you to a certain state and gets you to a certain feeling. When you feel that feeling, what you'll find is that then do you bring more of it in your life? I have had so many people tell me that they attracted love by listening to attract love. When you get your inner guide, when you get your insides to feel what it would be like to be in that relationship, you didn't attract opportunities into your life. That may have been always right in front of you, but you just haven't been aware of it.

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My name is Aaron Doughty and I help people expand their consciousness. My areas of interest for this blog include motivation, meditation, neuroscience and enlightenment. The purpose of aarondoughty.com is to inspire change to those who want to experience more in life. I will openly and passionately share the tools, resources and processes that have made a difference in the quality of my life to help you do the same in yours. I’ve always believed that finding ways to add value to other peoples lives is the fastest route to both happiness and fulfillment and this is my genuine intention.