How to deal with people who don’t “get you” during a Spiritual Awakening

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The best thing you could do is to be the person they expect you to be. You're challenging their viewpoint of you, and the reason you are here is to make everyone else happy. Of course, I'm kidding, but the way you go about this is different than you think. But doing these things I shared in this blog is going to change everything.

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Today, I'm going to be sharing with you how to deal with friends and family as you go through your spiritual awakening process. It's something I think that a lot of people are going through right now because they're going through a spiritual awakening. It's interesting cause you got to have a lot of people that are around friends and family that may not totally understand them. I remember when I went through my spiritual awakening, so much about me changed. I came out of my spiritual awakening, and I wanted everyone to understand what I went through, and I didn't really even completely understand it, but I remember I went from feeling like I was at a three out of 10 with 10 feeling amazing, one feel not so great.

Then all of a sudden, I felt like I was a seven out of 10. I felt like I was high all the time. I was meditating two or three times a day, and my whole entire life felt different. It was like I was excited to tell people about it. I was like; we'll listen, your thoughts correlated with your experience. If you change your thoughts, change your life. That was one aspect of it. Then I was also aware that, you know, this is ego. This is a physical body that we use while we're here. But I believe that at a deeper level, we're so much more than that. Normally people that go through a spiritual awakening, and we'll have that, the derivative of that realization. When you do, it's so much more empowering than believing we are just these physical flesh bodies.​

That's as far as consciousness goes and believing that makes you feel like you're in a box. Most people believe that on autopilot. Yesterday I was doing a live Q and a for something I have called the Shift Academy. It's a monthly group coaching and an inner circle that I have. There were two or three people that had a similar question. Their questions were in relation to them going through their spiritual awakening, their friends and family, not getting it, and what did they do to get them to get it?

Or how do they navigate through that? That's why I'm making this blog as well because I went through it in my own experience, but I wanted to share with you as well some of the blocks that really can have it, and make it easier by knowing how to navigate through it. The main part of this blog though, is knowing that the more you believe that you are separate from everybody else, the more you may start to have this spiritual ego. That's what happened to me. I got rid of my 3D ego, which was the old version of me that used to drink and party. That was that version of me. All of a sudden, I then began to meditate to observe my thoughts. As I began to do that, I began to feel completely different. I started to see myself as a higher vibrational person then.

What happened is then, as I got rid of one ego, there was the spiritual ego that just came in the back door. And then what happened is that spiritual ego you want, you may not even be aware that it's there, but it's then this person that is higher vibrational, a person that many people just don't understand me. That can happen a lot too because I became a kind of bitter. I remember I was sharing the spiritual information. My dad was from family and with some friends and I heard about that. Some friends were talking about me and what happened to Aaron type thing. I was like, why? What happened? A hair, and what do you mean? And then I realized, okay, maybe this stuff's a little bit different talking about spiritual Lincoln, the meditation, and that when I had that, then I started to develop this edge.

I was like, well, daddy, don't get me. They're just still asleep. I felt rejected. I think that that was like a level of anger that was kind of coming out that felt judged and then subconscious. Then what I did is I judged them without even really knowing it. I was like, well, they're still sleepy, and they don't understand it. They're not as high vibrational. These are the, you know, these are the thoughts that are going through the head. Then what happens? Then you start to create separation to where you can't feel connected to those people. And that's what happened to me. It's like I just did my own thing for months. I didn't even really talk to certain family members at all because I just knew they thought that they didn't know what was going on with me and what I did is I distanced myself, and for about six months, I just kind of did my own thing.

I was living with my mom is back in 2012. I was living with my mom. I would go out every day, and I would water all of these plants. I would connect with nature. I would lay in the sun and soak in the energy of the sun. I would just really enjoy my vegan food. I would meditate or sometimes just lay on my bed. This is the spiritual music and looks at my ceiling fan, and that's what I did for months. But then what I realized is I had a belief that I formed that people don't get me. I have a story. I tell myself out about people now, and because of that, I was creating separation without even knowing it. I was reaffirming. There are no highlights people in my life that get me. There's no one I'm really connecting with at a very deep level.

Guess what happened? A self-fulfilling prophecy that became my reality. People not only do the people already in my life I didn't feel as connected to, but I was blocking out high vibe people from coming, what we'd call high vibe people from coming into my life that I would then resonate at that higher level at that higher, lower it. It understands what this process as well as levels of consciousness. The key is if you want them to accept you, you got to accept them. What I mean by that is they may not accept you initially. You want to know why they are afraid of losing you. They're afraid of losing you. They're afraid of losing. They were afraid of losing the air and that they knew. It was actually a very sad time.

I remember when my dad kind of broke down and was like, what happened to my son? He was like crying about it, and I was like, your son is not here anymore, but not the son that you knew. He's gone through a high vibrational spiritual awakening. He goes up the seventh dimensional Palladian collected. I'm just kidding. That's the danger, though of these different levels of consciousness is that then that's the perspective. But it can be sad to family members have a little compassion for them. Your family members and your friends, they just miss the old you. But here, what's the alternative? You go back to being the old dude.

That's kind of what I did with one of the people that I was a really cool guy. I was, I was coaching on a Zoom call, which is the way I do that, the Shift Academy coaching by Zoom. I bring people on. I talked to them, and I was like, I was playing devil's advocate in away. I was like challenging it. I was like, well, you don't have to do anything. Just go back to being the way you work as like, no, I don't, I don't want to do that. Do you know? It was just to show that that's a ridiculous thought. Going back to the old you and it kind of then makes you realize, well I'm not going to do that. What is the alternative? Going back to the old you going back to drinking, you know, not that drinking's inherently wrong, but going back to like talking about the same thing and all of those things.

Or did you come here to be bold? I believe many of us going through a spiritual awakening as high vibrational, seventh dimensional, just kidding, but as high by high vibrational people that came to go through spiritual awakening. I believe that we spread ourselves out through many different families. It would have been very convenient if you and I and everyone else were just to incarnate it into the same exact family, and we just grew up. But we just knew all of this information, and we never challenged each other. We always stayed with the expectation of how we have what we have. It's so easy, right? Well, we came here because we wanted to go through each shift in consciousness. I believe, at a collective level, there's a global shift in consciousness happening. Some, you know, there's still a range, or some people are still deeply in their old egoic, materialism, and perspectives.

But we came to wake up in different families and different groups of friends so that it would influence more people in a powerful way. I believe that we spread ourselves out for a reason. We're finding each other. Every one of the comments is going to be in a similar vibration and have similar thought processes. But the key to this is becoming aware that to navigate through this spiritual awakening process, one of the best things you could do, you want to know what it is? Don't sell it. Don't sell it. When I came out, I was like, listen; your thoughts create your reality. Listen, you over there, your thoughts create your reality, blah blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Tell all my friends and family. They were like, Whoa, Whoa bro, just let's talk about something else.

It would cause resistance because I was so excited about it, and I wanted to share it, but they weren't necessarily open to it what I had to learn that this is what I learned to do. Just do you booboo, just deal you. That's what I did. I just did me. I mean not that it has to take years, but for years I eventually was working that nine to five job and I was like, okay, I'm just going to spread my message, do what I'm passionate about, which is making YouTube videos, I'm going to do this. As I started to act on my passion, I started to meet people in a similar vibration as me. I got like Victor in my life. Other people are in the same mindset, and it's because I was being me. When you are Dean, you, you then will attract other people that will resonate with you in your authentic core.

But if you're trying to people please and try to make everyone else happy and trying to have people get you and accept you, then guess what? Then you're not being the real you and you can't attract other people in a similar vibe because if you do attract people in a similar vibe, you'll attract people that are also trying to be other people to make other people accept them. Know that one of the main reasons you came here was to be bold, to be bold, to be bold, and to be you doesn't mean you have to sell this information and, and, and get people on board. I just share it, and people that resonate with it resonate with it. I throw them and people that don't resonate with it, they don't find me, or they find me, and they leave a comment, and they say, this stuff is weird. How did I find this in my subscription feed? Which is totally cool too. Let me see if I forgot.

He thinks so don't sell it except them. When you accept them, they will then accept it? You don't need them to get; you don't need them to get you because if you need them to get you, then your happiness is dependent on whether they accept you or not. But ironically enough, except the first, even if they don't accept you and the irony is by you putting out that energy, they then may feel that and then want to come around. I have so many friends and family from back in the day that thought when I started this whole spiritual awakening information and sharing on YouTube, they thought it was kind of nuts or crazy or weird and esoteric, but guess what?

A lot of them are coming around now. You may be planted the seed with friends and family and not even know it. I mean, you may just be maybe put in the back of their pocket icon. It's kind of weird that these into this whole spiritual meditating stuff, but then they go out for two years and they're like I'm having some difficulty of life. Maybe I should learn that meditation. Oh yeah, Chris, right over there. Oh yeah. Margaret, right over there. Let me ask them. They're afraid of losing you. That makes it a little bit more compassionate, as well. That's a trap that many people can fall into. I will say as well, one of the best ways to connect with these other people, family, and friends that may not get you, is doing a process called Ho'oponopono. If you've never heard of a poor, I went to that date with destiny Tony Robbins recently, and one of the main components of the healing aspect is that whole podium.

I have a meditation that you can listen to for 21 days to change your life. It's not even a meditation you have to lay down. You can do it while you're going to the gym. You could do it. I don't know if I go to the gym, it's kind of relaxing. But you could go to a, on your car ride to work. When you're walking around and cleaning the house, it's four simple statements. As you think of someone and you think of these, these four simple statements of, I'm sorry, I love you. Please forgive me. Thank you. You've been clear out your energy field. You also begin to heal your connection, your called energetic cords between you and other people.

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My name is Aaron Doughty and I help people expand their consciousness. My areas of interest for this blog include motivation, meditation, neuroscience and enlightenment. The purpose of aarondoughty.com is to inspire change to those who want to experience more in life. I will openly and passionately share the tools, resources and processes that have made a difference in the quality of my life to help you do the same in yours. I’ve always believed that finding ways to add value to other peoples lives is the fastest route to both happiness and fulfillment and this is my genuine intention.