Why You Attract Feminine Men or Masculine Women (and what to do about it)

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If you are attracting either feminine males or masculine females, there's a reason for that and in this blog, I'm going to show you exactly why that is, what you can do to switch that up if you desire and how you can more so also heal feminine or masculine runes inside of yourself. I've made a couple of other videos on that of understanding the masculine-feminine energy. I'm going to go ahead and link those below in case you're interested in them. The thing that I've noticed, even in my own life as I go through the shadow work of integrating more and more of myself, is that for a period of time I was attracting more masculine females into my life.

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One of the reasons being was because I think of some inner wounds that I had from growing up. I noticed this in a lot of other people, especially a lot of spiritual people too. I've seen it, and there's nothing wrong with this. Understand that we all have feminine and masculine energy inside of us. The thing that sometimes happens though if something that happens when we were younger and we then make a certain meaning or we start to play out things in a certain way that then depolarizes our own energy.

For example, let me share this with you now. When I was growing up, many of you know, between seven and 15 years old, if you've watched some of my other videos, I know I talked about it a lot, but seven to 15 years old, I had an abusive ex stepmom in my life and she was very masculine and my brother and I had almost no freedom. We're not to have friends. We weren't allowed to watch TV. A lot of times we were just locked outside working outside. We were given a cereal in the morning and TV dinner at night. We're very light and skinny. After my dad divorced her when I was 15 years old, all of a sudden, we had all this freedom again.

Even after my ex stepmom left my life. First off, one of the things that my brother and I had to do to get by is we had to please her. Meaning we had to do things that would make her happy. Like, if we wanted to go to some school activity, we'd have to clean up, do all these chores and do all this stuff and then look to her and say, Oh, was it good enough? Can I go to school activity? That was the kind of mentality that my brother and I developed. Then we would also see our dad as the masculine presence in our life. My dad is like the nicest guy in the whole world. What ended up happening is the role model that I had as, as the masculine was a very, it was more feminine energy that was letting the masculine run the show.

What I found is that I kept attracting women into my life that were very controlling and women that were also in a way much more masculine woman. That just kept happening. I kept attracting more masculine women into my meaning. By masculine, I mean controlling, trying to be very dominant, trying to tell me what to do, nitpicking me. That was a pattern that I kept attracting into my life until I became aware of a lot of this information. I eventually integrated those old wounds, integrated that old shadow. With this process, awareness is key because as you become aware of it, you then begin to change your energy and then you attract something different. It's awareness has a keynote. If you find that you are attracting either feminine men or masculine females, a woman than it is because of your energy, your leading energy is the other side.

This can work for also same sex, you know, if even in, in same-sex relationships. Normally there is one that is more polarized, masculine, and one that is more polarized feminine normally. When we're talking though, imagine there's a, just for the example state, imagine that there's a woman that is attracting feminine men. Then most likely the woman inside of herself has a bit more masculine energy activated and doesn't have anything to do with physical looks or anything like that.

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My name is Aaron Doughty and I help people expand their consciousness. My areas of interest for this blog include motivation, meditation, neuroscience and enlightenment. The purpose of aarondoughty.com is to inspire change to those who want to experience more in life. I will openly and passionately share the tools, resources and processes that have made a difference in the quality of my life to help you do the same in yours. I’ve always believed that finding ways to add value to other peoples lives is the fastest route to both happiness and fulfillment and this is my genuine intention.