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You can leave a review hereToday, I'm going to be sharing with you how to go beyond wanting how to go beyond needing, how when you say, I really, really want something, you are actually saying I really, really don't currently have it, and I'm going to show you exactly what to do instead because the key to these changes everything. And for me to uh, explain this for me, first off, say that back in the day you read old school books like, um, think and grow rich, have the led touch, burdened, desire. You must really, really, really want it.
Well, the thing is, is when you really, really want something, sometimes it can really, really make you really, really take action so it can move you up this ladder to where you go from the wanting of this energy you're putting out to then you taking action and dissipating that wanting and then moving into a different state. However, the key is not in the wanting. The key is not in the wanting unless, if it moves you to take action, moves you, and gives yourself permission to move from one state to another, then it can be powerful.
But what I'm saying in this blog, I'm going to share with you; there's a powerful process. There's a PR, a process, even more, power, a lot of peas. There's a process even more powerful than that. And that comes from a higher level of consciousness that when you begin to raise your level of consciousness, you see that these things happen. Reality is meant to be magical. Reality is just a reflection of our internal state of being. When you look out right now, everything around you is a reflection of what you believe you deserve. Okay. You might see a certain type of relationship you're in. Maybe somebody talks down to you.
If that's the case, then it means at a certain level you may meet, believe that's what you deserve, and if in what you can do is realize that you maybe don't, you have a bigger boundary and you don't allow that to happen, but you see everything around you is a reflection. That's all the outer reality is. Now, this is the key. Most people are chasing things, which implies those things are running. If you want something, you are putting out a vibration like think of these as separate vibrations — the vibration of wanting something.
I really, really want it. I really, really hope it happens, and that would be so cool. What does that vibrationally mean? I don't currently get it. I don't get it, and I want it. I want it. I got it. Okay, but now let's move it over here. The vibration of having it, the vibration of having it. I naturally have what I want. I naturally am able to create what I want. And it's like this is what it's like and it feels like this and I'm happy, and this is how I feel. This how natural it is, this vibration to I want it. I got it. A totally different vibration. Well, I mean that would be like, I want it. I got it. But that's a song. Anyways, this idea is about understanding. These are two different vibrations. The vibration of wanting something, the vibration of having it are different.
What is the key to this process to uniting with this? Well, the key to this more powerful than really wanting something, needing something, or chasing something is mentally uniting with that thing that you want in your life. You must mentally unite for it. Unite. Think of it like this. Let me use an example. At first of an analogy, the reality is simply a reflection. If you want something, you must mentally unite with it. And the way you first, mentally unite with something is you unite with it on the inside; you unite with it internally. This is actually what I did to be in this house. Here's the thing, this house I'm in right now, it's pretty cool. I really like it. It's a one-story house here in Las Vegas, which is where I was born and raised. And the cool thing, what I love about it is certain little characteristics of it.
Let me share the little story because there was a time when I wanted this house, and I really even told myself I need this house, but I wouldn't be in this house right now if I didn't make this switch that I'm going to share with you. Originally what happened was I is back in August 2018. I'm actually going to move out of this house in the next like three weeks to a month because I want to be traveling the world. I'm kind of sad, but at the same time, I'm happy cause I'm traveling the world. But this is what happened. August 2018, I'm like, Yo, I got to get my own place. I was living with roommates. I was like; I got to get my own place. This is, I got an email and camera set up and leave it up. Don't worry about anybody taking my camera stuff and all that.
What I said is I said, okay. I go and look at a couple of houses, I guess. I mean, it's, I don't know how I forgot how I got some real estate person. But anyway, they were showing me some houses. And I like the vibe. The lighting's not good. I saw another house; it's in another house. It was close to one of my buddies. I was like, cool. But the house wasn't that Nice. And by the fourth or fifth house, I saw this house. Okay, I'll walk into this house. First off, it's in a location that I like to close it. It's actually quite close to where the high school I went to and stuff. And I'm so; I'm very familiar with the area now. What happened was I come into this house as a gated neighborhood.
I was like, which I like to, I'd come into this house, and it's this big open house like it's an actual just very open floor plan, and I come in, and it's got a really good vibe, but really vast vibe. The way that they had the furniture set up was really nice — really kind of similar to the way I would have it. Most of the backyards in Vegas are just dirt. That's it. How did you suppose to ground yourself in the dirt? Well, you could do it, but it's really hard dirt. The backyard here got grass over there. I got grass over there; I got grass in the front yard. There's a lot of grass here. I have to have someone mow the grass, but I'd rather have the grass.
I have a pool right here. I've used it a couple of times. It's pretty cool. I have a peach tree where, and then I have a lemon tree right behind or in the corner over there. There are certain parts of this house. I was like, Whoa, this is the perfect house. Houses were going very quick. However, there's the guy there is, he's cleaning that yard, or he's the guy's getting a little long, so he's going to trim that. But anyway, I find out there's five other, or if there are three or four other people that have, I was one of like four or five people that had applications in on this house. There I am like, Ooh, what am I chances like one in five. I was realizing, I really, really want this house.
I don't even want it. I need this house. That was the perception I had. But then no, I had this realization, I said, I like, like this, this part of me was like, Aaron, I was like talking to myself. I was like, Aaron, you are not going to get this house if you are that desperately needy and chasing it and wanting it that much like that you're putting out that energy because it was desperate energy. I was like, I really want this house. I really need this house as close to the airport. I need to be doing a lot of traveling, which I have done a lot of traveling this last year.
This is what happened. I said, okay, I got to mentally, internally unite with this house. What I did is when I would go to bed at night, I would relax, and I would understand that what I could do is visualize it, be natural for me to live here. There's that aspect to this too, I'll talk about, but the vibration of wanting, the vibration of having, I was in mentally the vibrational of having this house of being in it, of knowing that I could make amazing videos that would help people in here of knowing that I could have this, uh, you know, I have this many different aspects of this house that I knew I would enjoy and I imagined myself enjoying it and how natural that felt and how, you know, like a lot of times when people really want something or need something, they put it on a vibrational pedestal.
I knew it was natural. I imagined this is going to sound kind of weird. Try this with your manifestations. I imagined that the house wanted me here, that the, almost like the house had some sort of consciousness or something. I was like, Aaron, I want you here because you're going to hug the trees every night. There are two, there are three trees in the backyard, and I sound kind of weird. I hugged them every night. Okay. I'll just, I just touched him, and I'm like, I don't love you. And then I go to bed. Okay. I don't know why I do that. I just like to myself; I walk barefoot in the grass every single night before I go to bed. It's the way I grabbed myself cause I have a lot of energy, and that's what I do. But I imagined that the house actually wanted me to, you know, everything.
I believe everything has a certain energy, and you can be incompatible with it. And by having that mentality, you can then see that maybe things want you, you know, everyone's focused on, I want to attract that person into my life. But what if instead, you imagine that that person also wanted you because of the value you provided because of the person you are, how funny you are. You see, it's a different energy dynamic. My story on the inside is showing the story on the outside, and my story is I already got it. See that when I did that with this house, there was no question in my mind. I got this house. There are four other people, three other people that have applied for this house. I got it. What if I was like, I want it. I want it. I'll want it. I want it. I want it. I would not already have it.
Do you see what I mean? I hope I'm getting the point. You know the thing about too, it's like I really, really, really want you in my life right now. If you like trying to attract a relationship or something, but imagine instead of what you do is you realize that you can move into this vibration of just having this be natural. I saw it as natural for me to live in this house. Do you know? The key to everything I'm sharing with you right now links up to your self-image, and here's another key. Change the story. You tell yourself the story you tell yourself. If you have a story that says, well, anytime I've tried to do something in the past where I'm trying to, you know, poke a comp, compete with other people, like put in an application, I want them to choose me and tell them I've done something like that in the past school project.
I wanted to win some competency. I never went as my story. I never really won. And then we carry that story into the present moment, and we say, well I probably want when that's, I didn't win. And that's back in eighth grade. You shouldn't mean well those are different. That's a story that we're telling ourselves on the inside that may eventually, well, the May have a certain reflection on the outside as well. The key to what I'm sharing here is to move from that of the, the story on the inside, make sure the story on the inside you are mentally aligning and vibrationally aligning with the reality of you having and being in that vibration of what you want.
I realized that part of my story is I don't need the ego to do everything. I have certain intentions, I have certain visions, but then what I do is I allow things to come to me. That's a story. Maybe it's storytelling me that maybe that's the way it works. I don't know. But I know that. What I did with this whole house when I wanted it and I really wanted it, what I did is I vibrationally moved into mentally viewing it and pitcher and as if I was already living there. And then imagine the house wanted me to live here. The other thing I did is I knew that the owners here that lived here before, they wanted pictures of the current house I was living in to see if I was a clean person.
I knew that they valued that cause it's very, as a very rare thing to say, hey, we want each of the applicants to send pictures of their current house that they're living in, what it looks like. And luckily, I was living in a model house. I was living with some friends at the time, but the house that I was living in was like a model. It came with the furniture they bought; they bought the house, my friends and they bought it with the furniture in it. And it was like really beautifully set up. I just took pictures of this perfect house.
But then what I did is I sent them a letter that said, listen, I work from home, I travel a lot, and I don't, you know, I don't party like crazy or anything like that. I really appreciate your house and think that I would love to live there. I would love to take care of it, and I would really value it, and you'd have nothing to worry about. And I don't, I knew that they also didn't want pets, you know, that they wanted, they, they would allow like a one really small dog, but they were kind of, I could tell they're kind of reluctant on that because they, they all have these stipulations with it.
I have no pets whatsoever. I got no kids. The house could be in great shape. I tapped into something that's called outer intention, but it also was tapping into their intention as well. And then because I was appealing to that aspect of themselves, they said yes, you see. I wrote them a little letter that said, hey, blah, blah, blah, blah. And I tapped into that. But in general, I wasn't needy in that leather. I was in that letter, I was like, I really, really need, this is a really, really want this, blah, blah, blah. It was more so just explaining how I felt so that they knew that I would take pride in what I was living here, which I have, and they've really liked me as a tenant. I'll tell you that. And this is about being aware of that.
The reason I'm sharing all this with you is so that you can start to mentally unite your own story of seeing things as natural for you. Have it a part of your self-image. What is your self-image, and how do you see, and is it natural for you to accomplish what you want? Do you see it? Because if you put your goals of what you want, what you need, what you chase on a pedestal, they are vibrationally separated from you, and you can't actually experience it. The key is knowing it's a part of your nature. It's a part of who I am to live in a house where there's grass in the backyard where I have an open floor plan where I create videos every single day.
That's natural for me — the same thing. When I started going daily on YouTube, it was hard at first because I was changing my self-image, but I tell people even more powerfully than me making daily videos and having the YouTube algorithm go crazy and all that stuff to grow. It changed my identity for seeing myself as I used to see myself as somebody lazy. To see myself as somebody that's passionate loves what I do, and it's easy for me to take action. It changed my self-image.
This is the key. It's mentally uniting with what you want, but visualization, visualization is one of the most powerful ideas behind this that I think can change your life and decrease in importance is another extreme, extraordinarily powerful thing. If there's someone you like, you're like, I really, really like you, and it's put on a pedestal, it's immediately separated from you. But if you see it as natural for you to talk to that person as natural, for them to like you too because you realize that you add value, you're funny; whatever it is, then it's more of an energetic thing. Instead of, "I want it, I want it. I want it." It moved to "I got it. I got it. I got it." Because it's who I am. It's natural for me. And by doing that, you'll find that then things in your life begin to shift in a very powerful way.
