Why Your Twin Flame is Running and How to Have Them Chase YOU


If you want to have your twin flame chase you, then there are certain energy dynamics that have to change to make that actually happen because our energy influences whoever we're around and if you want to develop gravity, that's what you must do, that we'll have them chase you and in this blog, I'm going to show you exactly what to do to make that happen.

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Today, I'm going to be sharing with you what to do if you feel like your twin flame is running and how to think about this in a different way that allows you to have more gravity so that then you attract that coming back to you. First thing I want to talk about is what are we implying here when we say twin flame is running, when we say a twin flame is running, now our twin flame is in the twin flame, in general, is this idea that every one of us has a twin flame, a connection that we have a soul type connection.

That, in a way is what we could call a divine mirror. Many times, you'll find in twin flame relationships that people tend to, it tends to bring up a lot of stuff within the other person, and in a way when one has done a certain amount of work, it could also cause it to wear. Then the other one, in a way it gets brought up to speed to the other person, which sometimes can be scary because imagine that maybe you haven't done as much, somebody hasn't done as much inner work and then all of a sudden all of these things are getting brought up, and then they look at you, which is the person they're around. That's sometimes what causes them to run is what is being reflected back as a certain type of inner work that needs to be done.

That energy can then be somewhat frightening. When we're talking about a twin flame running, let's understand that our twin flame disconnection, we have this story we tell ourselves about this process, has a direct correlation and influence on it. If we are telling ourselves a story that says my twin flame is running, then what is happening is we are implying that there's our little twin flame right there is running, and we are trying to catch our twin flame. Anytime we say that you know, I'm chasing someone chasing love. What we are implying is that someone else is running. Now our beliefs about reality have a strong, have a strong influence on reality, and if we keep telling ourselves a story, our twin flame is running, my twin flame is running, my twin flame is running, then that continues to be the energy that we are putting out.

Many times, if we put something on a pedestal like a twin flame, the twin flame idea, many times, we will put it on a big pedestal, make it very heavy. Guess what happens? That heaviness then is something they feel and when they feel like they're being controlled when they feel like there's some agenda there. When we sometimes people feel like they don't know they're my twin flame and because they don't know that they're weird twin flames. They may just break it off too easily, but here's the thing, and here's the truth that sometimes it's hard to hear the idea, and the belief in the twin flame ideology can get so heavy that I see people resist the process. If we're putting this idea on a pedestal and we're putting this person on a pedestal, then we end up creating resistance around this idea.

Something else that helps us understand and not put our twin flame on a pedestal is understanding more about how this might work. First off, understand that you and I, we're all connected, we're all connected. That makes it easier to understand because we're all connected that we don't necessarily have to put one person or one idea on a pedestal over anyone else. Now let's look at what a twin flame idea or the twin frame relationship may be. At the top, we might have our higher self, our higher self. Let's say this is our over soul, and then we have our higher self, which we're all connected to our higher self, and then we have different incarnations based on our higher self. This is us, and let's say our higher self is here. When we go into meditation, we connect to our higher self and then above that's over the soul.

Here’s the thing about reality. Every single person, if you go up high enough, we're all connected. Every single one of us now what we call the twin flame relationship maybe, or our twin flame, in general, maybe that connected to the higher self. It's just a little bit further up there. Maybe it's the two. The two souls have the same higher self. Rather than being in relationship with someone over here, which could be just as deep of a relationship, by the way, sometimes if we put the twin flame relationship on a pedestal, then assume, Oh, this is the other half to my soul, this is the other half of my soul. If it doesn't work out, then I'm doomed from love. Then we feel like we're missing out on something. Here's what I've learned, though. Not necessarily do every twin flame relationship, not necessarily does every twin flame relationship meant to be a romantic partnership through all of life.

We're eternal spiritual beings. I do believe because there's an awakening happening on the planet, that there's more twin flame type connections happening than ever before because this is the time of transformation on the planet. However, in general, the best thing you can do to have your twin flame chase you is to switch around the energy dynamic and to know that your good either way, all of these other beings at a deep level are you at the deepest core. Because of that, you can have just as a deep connection with your twin flame as you can with anyone else. Now, this doesn't mean that I'm saying that you just, it's never going to work out. What I'm saying is that by knowing you have options, it is then not putting that twin flame on a pedestal. Because I'll tell you right now, learning from experience, I remember when I first met what you call my twin flame, and you know, many of you know, that's Leeor.

I remember when I first met her, I've never felt such a deep connection to someone, especially even just a spiritual connection like that. I really put her on a pedestal in a way in the beginning. We both did, we both put each other on a pedestal in a way. We really felt a certain way. We both lived in different cities, so there were times we'd go travel, we'd go do something else separately. We could both really feel that tug. I remember I wasn't even somebody that, by the way, was really into this whole idea of the twin flame relationship idea. I wasn't even really about that. I used to think it was annoying because I felt like people put such a weight on it and put it on such a pedestal that it, they resisted it and they ended up like would give up a lot of their happiness for that.

I was almost in a way resistant towards it. But from meeting her and get all this stuff brought up between both of us. We're not even sure, but she and I are still best friends, and we have redefined our relationship to where we're no longer romantically together. However, we will know each other for life, and it's a very deep connection. Especially because we started to connect when we went to that place in Costa Rica. Then we started to connect more at a deeper level. And I've always felt we've always felt a connection with each other, even just as friends. But then it developed into something more. That's when it brought up a whole bunch of amazing growth opportunities, a whole bunch of amazing experiences.

But I will say that in the beginning of the relationship, the energy dynamic changed when I would think about it on a pedestal and be like, wow, this is like so different than anything else. The more I would do that is the more resistance I would create. Then the more resistance within have things happen to where we could feel that we would, it would almost repel each other from each other, from each other, from connecting at a very deep level. I'll tell you what really helped me is learning to just let go and allow the things to happen that the way they're meant to. I know that's kind of hard to hear by the way, because I remember even going through it, and it was kind of challenging, and a lot of it was very challenging because I'm like, I know this, I know I should let go. But part of me was like, it was like I was still trying to control the outcome. I'll tell you right now that if I would have detached from this whole ideology of believing that I'm only meant be with this one person, that I wouldn't have gotten into scarcity, and I wouldn't have then.

To have your twin flame chase you, what you must do is you must become the star of your own movie. You must be the star of your own movie. I kind of stopped doing that for a while. What happened was, is a Leo started to go through some deep processes. She was going through a Kundalini activation. All of these things happened once we started dating, even for me to my own personal growth. But she started going through that and then what happened is I was so focused on intending to help her and tending to in a way help her move through it. That in a way, I lost my own, my own vision, and going in a certain direction because I was so focused outside of myself. I was so focused on being a fixer. In a way, I’ve kind of developed this archetype of being a fixer, maybe from part of it could be from my dad and, and just kind of like growing up with the, you know, my ex stepmom situation, but always trying to fix and help people.

What happened was, is all of that got brought up when Leoor and I were dating and especially at the beginning, and I didn't become, instead of the star of my own movie, I kind of surrendered that role and it would kind of go back and forth, and that's when the resistance would come up. That's when there would be issues between us, or something would come up, and we would feel like there was a communication issue and a, and then I'll tell you what, though, things started to align. When I started to take my star roll back, my star rollback, then things would, would go back. You know, I'm the star of my own movie. You're the star of your own movie, but you're also more attractive when you are the star of your own movie. It's funny because once we let go of the labels of us being and, and focusing, you know, we still believe that we are twin flames even though we're not together.

I know that might seem weird to sound, you know, sounded weird because people were like, Oh well, it has to work out this one individual way. But I think that twin flames come to activate. They come to activate each other. Because we are activating each other, what that activates in each individual person can, in a way, repelled the other person, or if you are activating them, they made them look at you and be kind of afraid and push you away. Twin flames come to activate. I remember when I first was talking to a like my spiritual advisor in a way, and she intuitively, it was like, yes, this is your twin flame connection. She said twin flames come to activate each other, and it makes total sense because of back into, you know, back in a year ago when she and I first started dating and met or brought up and activated all this personal stuff within me. It was something that then I had to look at, and there was a month I remember is in December 2018. It was a very deep month of going within and the personal journey, but in a way, I felt a lot of resistance and then cause I felt resistance.

She felt resistance on the other side, on the other side, even though for a while she was traveling, she was in Europe and she could feel that resistance from me from that far away. But that kind of connection, that's kind of how it works now understand as well that one of the most important things you could do to have your twin flame chase you is to first off be the star of your own movie. The next thing is to completely let go of the outcome. This twin flame connection is a divine thing. When we try to control it using the human vessel and the human mind, we end up butchering up the vibration. That's what really changed for me, too is the more I learned to let go, the more it would come to me. Maybe you've had this experience even just beyond twin flames.

Have you ever had it to where or you see it, I've used this analogy before, but two people are dating? Maybe they're in a relationship, or maybe they start dating, and then they split up, and one is very sad, and one really wants the other one. Then what happens is the other one that sad about it for like two weeks. Finally, he goes out with friends or starts to forget about it or works on themselves, whatever it is. Then what happens is because they're not focused on the person they want to be with anymore, it's like that person can then feel it, and it's like why? It's like almost they feel that energetic tug, and then what they do is they may text you the person like, so what are you up to? Even though they were resisting it for so long, and they wanted them to text them back.

Maybe a soul mate relationship is something that actually may be more fulfilling in your life, and your twin flame connection was here to just activate you. Maybe then eventually it comes back around, and maybe it doesn't. But if you trust that process, you're going to allow the divine to work for you rather than you working and trying to do everything. It's like the ego's trying to put it on its back. It's trying to try to get somewhere else and trying to get into control of someone else. The key to this is allowing and letting go and also getting to the core of your own love, doing your own inner work, becoming aware of your definition about it, and really learning how to be unconditionally loving.

I would say that from the and mine's relationship because we really are best friends. We just got the phone like yesterday. We haven't seen each other, and I'm in a couple of months, but we still talk all the time, and we're still great friends. I have learned from our twin flame relationship is unconditional love, unconditional love, even with the conditions that we're not together. That's actually really loving. Love is not some dependent love that I love you as long as you give something to me, as long as you make me feel an emotion, as long as you make me feel approval and appreciation and love, no unconditional love. When you truly want the best for someone else. When you recognize that it's also that you want them to be happy, you want them to be love. You want them to fulfill their utmost potential.

That's actually really loving. That is unconditional love. And if you want your twin flame to chase you, you must first be unconditionally loving to yourself and to them, even with the condition that they're not. They're not trying to be in a relationship with you right now. Have unconditional love for their growth process. Let them go through their own growth processes. Your you guys' meeting may have activated a lot within each other, so be compassionate about that, and by being compassionate about that, I promise you on the other side of that, the universe world will ward you but have faith in the process itself and let it be real. I understand that your definition and the story of abundance or the story of a twin flame, my other half of my soul that's on a pedestal. That's what creates resistance, and then that's what blocks out all this other love that could be there because it's just about this one person, but maybe the purpose of that relationship is to reflect back something.

Maybe it comes around in the future, and maybe it doesn't, but that that energy of understanding, being detached from it, is where the power is. Let go of the outcome and understand that if you really want to get to this as well, then what I recommend you do is you really follow your passion and you really do what your mission is because if it starts to take you if a relationship starts to take you off your mission, then a lot of times spirit may smack you on the hand and let you figure it out and in a way, it takes it away from you because it's counterproductive to why you actually came here. There's a larger view here. There's the higher-self view that's always directing you, and I promise you, you let go and realize the abundance that is all around you.

Realize that this comes to activates you, but it doesn't mean that you need to be together forever. Maybe it does. I'm not saying that it can't, but what I'm saying is the definition of it, saying it has to work out creates resistance that then causes the chase. It's like you don't, you realize you might, don't you realize you're my twin flame, don't you realize you're meant to be with me forever? Don't you realize that I have you on this metaphorical pedestal and that you're all the way up here and that it would be really amazing if you'd be in a relationship with me? Don't you realize that? And then they feel that energy and guess what off they go. Because that is an energy of control, that is an energy of resistance, and that is an energy that repels.

You change around the energy dynamic with the realization that this whole definition of twin flame can cause things to get on a pedestal and of itself. Realize you're an eternal spiritual being. You don't need another half. The other half would be here to activate you to reflect back something. It'd be like a mirror, but you're already holding complete. You have all these other connections so that then you could be in abundance and realize that maybe you're meant to be in a soulmate relationship instead of a twin flame relationship. Because then you're into that abundance, you're more likely to have gravity. The most important thing though, is to become the star of your own movie. When you become the star of your own movie, then you have people gravitate towards you. Are you on your mission? Are you doing what you're passionate about?


My name is Aaron Doughty and I help people expand their consciousness. My areas of interest for this blog include motivation, meditation, neuroscience and enlightenment. The purpose of aarondoughty.com is to inspire change to those who want to experience more in life. I will openly and passionately share the tools, resources and processes that have made a difference in the quality of my life to help you do the same in yours. I’ve always believed that finding ways to add value to other peoples lives is the fastest route to both happiness and fulfillment and this is my genuine intention.