LET GO (and it will come)

If you let go, it will come. That's all you have to do is let go. Just let go. Sell it off this ship. Stop trying to control the outcome. Stop trying to be attached to someone else, a person, the story that you tell yourself about why you are, where you are, the outcome, the past, let it go. It will come. I promise you. In this blog, I'm going to show you how to do that.

Today, I'm going to show you all about letting go. This is the thing, and this is why it is so important to let go. When you let go like scale of consciousness, when you let go, just drop it. Your vibration naturally raises when your vibration raises you feel better. Then when you're in a better feeling state, you're more likely to have more contagious energy. You're going to be more attractive to people. You're going to have more of a, of a carefree mentality. You're going to find that synchronistically things reflect back in your life that are preferable, but you'll find in almost every situation when you attached to things. When you're not letting go of either a person and outcome control the past, the story you tell yourself, when you don't let go of that, you create resistance. In my own life, I've had to learn this the hard way. The hard way of learning about this was that it would probably, for me, I would say the one that was the most difficult was control, letting go of control.

I think the reason that is, is because growing up and if you've heard my story, I know I've made a lot of videos on YouTube. This some over, you heard this story of anytime, but having the X step on my life from seven to 16 years old, I, you know, I realized I was always saying seven to 15 years old, so have you seven 16. There you go. New piece of information. The seven to 16 years old, I had the ex-step-mom in my life who was very controlling, very manipulative and didn't have much freedom at all. But what I learned is I ended up creating that certainty and that certainty, even though I w my brother and I both were treated very poorly after my dad divorced her. I remember feeling that sense of like, anything can happen. I don't like, even though we, my brother and I were normally doing chores outside, locked out, not allowed to have friends at, like, even though all those situations, we still, there was a level of certainty to that that felt comfortable.

After my ex step-mom left my life at 16 years old, my dad divorced her all the sudden, my brother and I are allowed to eat the food we want. We're allowed to have friends we're allowed to watch TV. We don't, we don't have to earn, going to school activities. All of a sudden, there's like this level of uncertainty. What ended up happening is I craved that certainty. Until I created it myself, one of the, I created certainty. One of them was actually smoking weed. Yeah… smoking weed. I know a lot of you may smoke weed. It's okay. I'm not judging you. But one of the ways I coped with the past for me was by smoking. I remember when I would smoke. It was a way of certainty. Anytime I would smoke, I would, then that feeling would go away. I was on a desperate climb to gain certainty in my life.

There were many different ways I did that. One was that one was taking Adderall was another one. It took Adderall because I had, it was labeled as Evan ADHD because I had a lot of energy. I am doing is taking that as well. Once again, certainty, you can take it, you feel that certainty. I decided, and I learned meditation. I wanted to get rid of having the side effects of like Adderall, which are you couldn't sleep very much. Couldn't eat very much. I learned and found meditation online was very powerful. I decided to do that. Within weeks I completely got rid of taking Adderall, completely got rid of smoking. I started to meditate. I didn't found certainty in something else, but this was something more positive. Then after meditation years later, I got certainty and making daily YouTube videos and starting to become successful.

This whole time I was having issues letting go of that certainty. I started to find that the more I had perspectives and the more I owed attach myself to meditation or videos, and I started to get success and I started to get rewarded for that. But what I eventually found is I had to let go of that control in order for me to really get to the next level. I hit a wall when I was making daily videos and I started to get results from it. But I felt like so much resistance. Remember, if you are attached, you are resistant. If you are not attached, you are not resistant to something. The energy is open and free and unconditional loving.  Remember, if you are having trouble letting go, there is a reason there. The reasoning of the mind. The cobweb of the mind that’s trying to decide why you feel the way you do. If you feel attached to a story about someone else, realize this, you are an infinite spiritual being living in a temporary human experience and you have an amazing experience with this person or maybe not amazing but you feel attached to them.

We have this perspective and what ends up happening is because of this perspective we end up feeling attached and it’s hard to let go of them. But, realize this, there’s 7 million people in the world. If you had such deep connection with this one person then it’s highly probable that there’s someone else out there that you could have even a deeper connection with. That is the difference. You realize that everything is already inside you. You can give yourself permission to love. You can give yourself permission to feel confident. It’s giving yourself permission and it’s just that we have rules. Anything you say, any belief you have, is a self-fulfilling prophecy. What is the key out of it? The key out of this, the way out is by becoming aware and it’s just a story. It is not actually 100% the way reality works. You just need to let it go. Let go and become free.