The Belief System of a Millionaire (the good, the bad and the ugly)

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I'm going to show you the belief system of a millionaire, not just the good things, though. I'm going to show you the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of the belief system of a millionaire

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Today, I'm going to be sharing with you the belief system of a millionaire, and I'm going to show you the good parts, the bad parts, the ugly parts, and that's sure that you know, and you can become aware of these things. First off, let me say that the intention to be a millionaire normally is kind of going about it the backward way. The key and the focus should really be on you doing what you absolutely love. You are living your purpose, knowing that the more you live your purpose and you also add value to other people, the more that value then comes back.

That's the reality we live in. We live in a reality where what you put out is what you get back. When you put out value, people will then give you energy back because of that value, and the energy exchange that we use in this reality right now at least is that of the money system. Because of that, the question of being focused on the money is like being focused on the side effect of you living your passion. I guess it's kind of like someone wants to get off my chest first and in my own journey of success and accomplishing everything I have on my YouTube channel and everything I have in my life. I'm going to share with you the things that I've learned about the process of having the belief system of a being a millionaire, of accomplishing that.

Before, I had the belief system of being a nine to five person. I believe that I needed to have a nine to five job, and because that was my belief, my actions. Remember this is your vibration a combination, would you think what you feel and how you act these three things is what causes you to have a certain reflection in your life. Your reality will be equal to that. Well, I used to believe, think, feel, and act like a nine to five type of person. I had to go to a job. That was the story I told myself. Breaking out of that is what changed a lot. First, let's go ahead and get to this video. I'm going to change.

I'm going to share with you some of the beliefs of millionaires and show you the good and the bad side of that. First off, and some of the stories that I have about that as well. The first one I wrote down has to do with being responsible for where you are in life. Many people that are millionaires at a certain point normally had sometimes even a rock bottom, a rock bottom where they hit some type of bottom, and they said, okay, I need to change something. Not only do I need to change something, but I can also change something. That many times can be the trigger point. This is how I used to want to do it and that I'm not laughing at anybody that does this because this was me in the past.

The way that I went about manifestation maybe, you know, five years ago is I literally would just think about it. I was working my nine to five job, and I would just think about it on the couch of like Tony Robbins, or I met Jack Canfield one time. I was thinking, Oh, if they just meet me, and they would somehow psychically see that I have this potential, and then they would, they would be like, Aaron, you going to make it? I'm going to put you on my stage, and I'm going to help you become this person you were meant to be. That was the story in my head, and I was thinking about it a lot. But then eventually, one day I had this realization, I need to actually be the kind of person, the version of me that would then be having the real reflection that I want.

I said, okay, you may know the story I saw myself. I was like, okay, if I make a video every single day for a year, my life will transform. I need to become the YouTuber before I am the YouTuber if that makes sense. I need just to give myself permission to do it. I started making daily videos, and once I applied that, once I realized I could change my reality, that's when things began to change. I realized that no one's going to put me on. Maybe there's some, you know, lucky coincidence where someone can experience that, but I don't think it's as common. I think that it really is, you know, we live in physical reality, and we have thoughts, feelings, and actions, thoughts, feelings, and actions. These are all three lines. If I were to think of people putting me onto some, you know, like platform and feel it but not acted, I'm not completing the circuit.

You see, so people that are millionaires have the belief that they want to change and that they can change. That's something as well and that they're going to take responsibility for where they are and then the direction for where they're going. That's another common belief that millionaires have. Another belief has to do with failure. If you think that you failed and you say, and you declare it as failure early on, and you give up, that's when things won't, you won't develop momentum. If after I made like ten videos, I was like, well, you know, I make ten videos. I'm actually getting fewer views per video. I have more videos out there and give up. Then I wouldn't be where I am today. But I trusted the vision. I trust the process. Once again, I learned, I learned as I went, I even learned aspects of the business.

I didn't know that much about it. For example, when I started making videos, there was this whole side of the business that had to do with understanding marketing, understanding what propelled people to click on videos. You may notice I got some flashy video titles. I got some flashy thumbnails where the idea is that people click on it, then they see how much is in the video. Then they're happy they clicked on it regardless of the yellow text or anything. Well, I had to learn marketing. I learned how that works so that I can then get and grow that vision. You see. Some of the aspects you may not be passionate about. Now that I've done that, I know I can apply that towards many different things I can learn. I almost have more than anything I'd say as well is becoming successful has changed my self-image.

I'm like, okay, well, if I can learn this whole YouTube thing, I can also learn this whole event thing, how to run events. I can also learn how to do this whole email thing. You see, I can apply it to many different things. Somebody that has a millionaire belief system is adaptable to change and is able to learn. That is something many millionaires, and that kind of belief systems will have a certain purpose and a certain vision that they are moving towards. For me, it's a vision. It's the purpose of me helping other people to wake up. It's helping people to go through and, and the people that normally wouldn't be open to spiritual, esoteric information making and helping people feel comfortable getting to this unfamiliar territory. That's my vision; that's my purpose. That just drives me.

Many millionaires are driven by a vision; they're driven by a purpose. That's what drives them. If it's, if it's just for the money, it's not really that sustainable. But if it's something that is actually passionate about, it is much more sustainable; that way, it gives you a stronger why as well. Now, something else I'll say is the ability to say no. Many millionaires and people with the millionaire belief system at a certain point will have to say no to certain things. When I first started growing my business, and I started growing on YouTube, there are people that are like, Hey Aaron, come hang out. I'd say I really want to go hang out. I really want to go hang out.

If I want to say yes to my vision, maybe it's not like you always say no, but you have to develop the ability to have boundaries to say, no, this is, this is something I have to do. I had to say no to. A lot of times, people had asked him to hang out, and it kind of sucked, but it was worth it because it grew my vision. I get to work from wherever I want. You guys look at this like this. This is where I live. Okay? Right now. Okay. I'm looking for a house right now. I just got to Vegas a couple of days ago. This right now is where I'm at and, I love my life. I love the freedom that it provides. However, that's something else. Another thing I want to talk about for a second is that natural things become natural.

If you're like, Oh, it'd be so cool to be a man. It's still cool. It's resistant energy and sometimes action. You being, you acting as the version of you that's doing what you're passionate about, seeing how you can add value to other people that will dissipate some of that energy. But when you become successful, you know, I thought that becoming a successful and, and being that way, I thought that what would happen is it would feel completely different. Well, guess what happens? The money in the bank account goes up, but it's natural. It's natural. It's not what you think. I'll say that from experience. It's not what you think. Even like, you know, you could look at like growing a YouTube channel and say, well, I remember when I first had a YouTube show, I was like, Oh, well, when I get to 100,000 subscribers on YouTube, I felt amazing.

I'm going to go to their gym and be like, Whoa, his drills are amazing and just, it's going to be awesome. Then I did 100,000, came around and it was like, Oh, this is really cool. And it went away after like a day. That's how it works. My voice was kind of blown out. It was at a Tony Robbins event for six days. Please forgive me. I love you. I kind of lost my train of thought anyway. I was talking about; I was talking about something. Okay, I'm going to move on to the next one. Let's talk about the bad parts of the millionaire belief system. These are the bad and the ugly side of it now.

At the Tony Robbins event, Tony was talking about how anytime you achieve a goal; you'll feel happy for what, a month, two months, three months, a day, a week. It's normally we found out between hours and a couple of weeks that you feel happy for achieving a goal, but then that happiness goes back down to your set point. That's why I think raising your vibration is that the most powerful thing you can do because then you're not as, you don't need those things to feel significant. They're good. However, even no matter what. So, 100,000 subs to 200 to 300 to 400, and it's like it's just a number. There's no number that's going to be like, Oh, it's just going to be natural. That's what I've learned from, whether it's money or whether it's growth or whatever, it doesn't really mean much long-term.

It's just like, Oh, okay, cool. I set my mind to it, and I accomplished that. Let's go to the negative side. I used to work a sales commission job every day I went in, I started at zero, and I got paid a commission on what I sold, and I had other coworkers I was with. One thing I remembered from that is that there was a high level of a competitive mind state or competitive mindset because you felt like you were competing with your other people because if those people got good sales from customers, you'd be digging yourself. I could have had that sale. I could have helped them. What? You don't even know for sure like what if you helped them, and your energy was different than connect. When you connect with the customer, you didn't sell those shoes.

However, when you start to become very successful, there may be somewhat of a competitive mindset that kind of comes into play because then you start to protect; you feel like you need to protect your territory. I felt this before even with my own YouTube videos because I make, you know, I made a thousand YouTube videos, and there are some times that people, you know, because they see that you made my channel's doing well, they will literally remake the same videos that I have on YouTube. I'll make a video and then what will happen to somebody else will make that same exact video title in a way make that video and then I'll feel in a way like my creativeness is being threatened or it'll be a certain, like, you know, a certain like competitive thing that I'll come in, and it's like, that's my content or something like that, you know?

That's come up for me many times where I have to become aware of it. I have to let it go, and I have to realize that I just, I'm creating my own vision, and there's enough to go around, and I don't need that, that mindset. However, I can see how people get trapped in it. I could see how people get trapped in that mentality. When I had that nine to five job, you know, it really changed things for me is instead of going in every day competing with other people, I went in every day, and what I did is I had what's called a creative bite set. Create a mindset. Is that where you realize that there's an abundance to go around and you don't ever give it a meaning that says, Oh, somebody else just had a great sale? No, I'm not going to have a great sale.

Do you see what I mean? It's like knowing, Oh, there's plenty of YouTube videos out. I can make my own videos and know that there's a lot of people out there, and maybe someone explains it in a different way that resonates with them regardless of the fact that it's the same title or whatever. It's about really just being aware that there's always enough to go around. The negative side of that, though, is the competition. The other negative side effect of this is that it never is enough with the negative beliefs, of being a millionaire or being very successful like that. It's almost like it become because it becomes so natural, you know, a bunch of them when they have a million dollars in their bank account when that's natural, you'll then see it as small, and you'll start comparing yourself to other people that do way more than that.

I know people that may make like $10 million a year, and then you look at yourself, and you're like, well, I'm not doing that much. You start comparing yourself to other people, and you always feel a little bit short. The comparison trap can be very dangerous with the belief system of being a millionaire. The feeling that is never enough. You see a lot of very successful people that are miserable because they're always trying to get more. If I could just get some, a little bit more success, if I could just get the next million, then I can feel worthy. It's not really the way it works. The way it works is, you have to generate that from within. You have to generate that state first. Otherwise, it will never be enough. That's another negative side effect, or a negative belief that some millionaires will have is that it's never enough and I need to have more, I need to have more now.

I was at the Tony Robbins event, and we're, we're driven by six human needs. It's certainty, uncertainty, significance, love and connection, growth, and contribution. A lot of people that are millionaires will be driven by significance. Honestly, there are times where I feel like I may have to do things because I had such a rough childhood, and because maybe people didn't believe in me. There's a certain level of unworthiness there, and I think a desire to prove myself. I think my dad wanted to go to a law school or wanted me to be a certain way. I didn't do that. I paved my own way, and I decided to, you know, do my own business, and there's a certain necessity to prove myself.

Even to this day, people still will say to me; you're still doing the YouTube thing, you know? And it's kind of like, yeah, I'm a successful person too. Do you know what I mean? It was like this necessity to be significant. There's a trap with being successful that you sometimes feel like that success will define you and make you feel more significant, and that's a dangerous trap to get in and instead be driven by. I'm driven now more, so by contribution. I became aware of the shadow aspect of my, my unworthiness, and tried and proved it to people. Now more driven by a loving connection and contribution and growth, which are a higher vibrational need to meet versus significance and certainty, which is something I was primarily driven by a while ago.

Another thing that I'll say as well as sometimes you see with some people that start to become very successful. I know I've seen it with some YouTubers. Some you'll see some YouTubers they start to lead with their success. You'll see people lead and be like, look at my mansion, look at this. Every video is then in their mansion. Every video is them talking about their car. Every video is talking about this now. I think those things can be like maybe powerful metaphors, you know? Like maybe, maybe when I move into my new house, I'll be like, guys, look how far I've come. I used to believe this, and now I'm here. But it'd be like one video, you know? it wouldn't be the center of the video. Even it would, the center of the video would be like, how you could do it too, you know?

But, I've seen some YouTubers even that grow to a certain level. Then what happens is they grow to a certain level, and then their content starts being less about what they love doing and what they're passionate about. It becomes more about money and success. It starts to take on a whole new vibe. That's something that I'm very mindful of and something I don't want to ever fall into. But I can see how it happens because then they start to, you know, they start to, in a way, they're so excited about it. But I think that's a very numbing thing. It's something that eventually goes, that feeling goes away, or it becomes natural. But, it takes the love and the passion out of it in a way. You see, it sometimes happens with certain YouTubers. It's something that a, it could be a dark side of this as well.

Those are some of the negative side effects. Here's what I recommend you do. Become aware of the beliefs you have about money. You know, I used to believe money was bad. I thought money was bad. When I went through my spiritual awakening, I became aware that money is not backed by gold. I became aware that money and the banks are corporations, and it's kind of had this belief system that has a level of control on the planet, and it was a negative belief. Guess what? I could not attract money with that belief system. Would that belief mindset. Instead, I realized money is an exchange of energy. That the more resources I have, the more I can build a team, and I could travel to events, and I can spread this message even grander. I reframed it.

This is about becoming aware of your beliefs and then reframing those beliefs. This is what the key to this whole entire process is. The more that you go through this process, the more you stop chasing, especially, especially stop chasing money, stop chasing abundance. You know, I have a video on stock, how to stop chasing it and exactly what to do instead. How to make it natural for, I'll go and link it below. It's called stop chasing money, and success and instead do this. Watch that video. It'll show you how to go through that process of well as well and how to reframe those money beliefs, but change the meaning of the story you have about money. Become aware what is the story you have about money?

What is the story that your parents had about money? Because that might be on autopilot. Become aware of these things and then see that most of it has just been on autopilot. Then when you're aware of how it's been on autopilot, you can then change it to something more of what you want. Read books by successful people that you want to be like. If you want to own your own art gallery studio, read people, read books from people that own art gallery studios. You know, I read books on Tony Robbins and I. I enjoy also getting my mindset in a similar mindset like his because when you read a book, I believe you tap into the energy of the book, the energy of the mindset of the person that wrote the book.

The cool thing about that is that by doing that, what then happens is you begin to link up with their vibration, and then it kind of helps you see more opportunities and see things in a new way. Read books, watch content from people that you want to be more like. At the same time, be aware of the shadow aspect of becoming a millionaire, becoming successful, and realize that it may not be everything that you thought it was, but if you're doing what you're passionate about, it will be okay. You'll be able to lead with your passion, lead with your heart, and you'll find that then it doesn't go in that negative direction.

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My name is Aaron Doughty and I help people expand their consciousness. My areas of interest for this blog include motivation, meditation, neuroscience and enlightenment. The purpose of aarondoughty.com is to inspire change to those who want to experience more in life. I will openly and passionately share the tools, resources and processes that have made a difference in the quality of my life to help you do the same in yours. I’ve always believed that finding ways to add value to other peoples lives is the fastest route to both happiness and fulfillment and this is my genuine intention.