Why The Law of Attraction is OUTDATED in 2020 and what to do instead…


I'm going to show you why the law of attraction is not enough in a way. It's being misinterpreted by so many people. I'm going to show you the process to apply instead and how this will change everything about the kind of results you are getting.

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Today, I'm going to be sharing with you more on why the law of attraction for many people can put people on a tangent, and it can also cause a lot of people that not feel like they're enough. Like maybe they're doing it wrong, like why am I thinking of this thing, but I'm not experiencing what I want. And there's a lot of resistance there. I know for even me at the beginning of me learning about the law of attraction.

At the time, I worked at Barneys New York, I was actually working at Nordstrom's in women's shoes, and I learned about it, and I started to see the correlation between what I think and what I felt and what I was experiencing. Experiencing, and as I started to set more intentions, I started getting a different kind of result. However, what I realized is even if I was focusing on something I wanted and intending for it, sometimes I wouldn't get the results that I want. Sometimes it would be like I would go around and I would still, I would feel this like underlying resistance, and even though I'm doing what they say and all the books I saw the movie, the secret and all these things, even though I'd be doing it, I wouldn't be getting the kind of results that I wanted, which would leave me feeling frustrated, leave me feeling like, does this process really work?

What I learned from this process and what I've learned through now years of living this lifestyle plus also helping other people to live their ideal lifestyle is knowing it's not about your thoughts creating your reality. It's not even about the law of attraction attracting something out of there, out there in the outer world, into your current life. The key to this is understanding your vibration underneath the desire, your vibration underneath who you really are. You don't always get that what you think. You always get a reflection of who you are, which is your identity and part of who you are. The most important part is understanding your vibrational level of consciousness. Look at this chart right here. Let me show you an example. Once you see this, you'll see this and that almost everything, and you'll be able to see this in a very powerful way.

You've got the chart of consciousness here. If you've got shame, fear, guilt, anger, and then as you'll see, then you eventually have acceptance. The neutrality, acceptance, reasoning, love, joy, peace, and enlightenment. Everybody has a base level gravity vibration that they are currently due to the way they think, feel, and act. These three things influenced vibration. Now imagine somebody is feeling anger. They're feeling anger at somebody that may be treated them a certain way. For example, I know this as well. I used to feel like I was trying to prove people wrong that didn't believe in me and my vision of wanting to become a YouTuber. Imagine then I'm taking action, and I'm thinking that I'm angry and I'm taking action. Like this is what I want to create. I'm going to show them wrong. That vibrational frequency is a slower vibration than that of joy.

Then that of love did that of even reasoning. Then the energy behind the thoughts that I have the energy behind the emotion, I have the energy behind the action I have is anger. Guess what? That is going to block me from actually experiencing what I want. Not only is it going to block me, I'm going to create a ton of resistance along the way. I'm doing it because I'm trying to prove people wrong at some external reason rather than doing it because I love doing it. Then what happens is I go on this tangent where things don't happen. Let's say that we feel some other lower vibrational energy. Say we've, we feel some type of fear. We simply feel fear. I know even like that sales commission job I had working at women in women's shoes. If I were to feel fearful of going out into the sales floor, I could be thinking all I want about helping customers and making money.

But if I go out there and fearful worrying about what people will think, that energy underneath the desire underneath that of the, of the intention is a prolonged vibration. Here's another factor in this. When you look at the scale right now, imagine there are certain beliefs that keep you in training in a certain vibration. For example, if you believe that you are a victim, then you may stay in 200 and below less than 200 because 200 is courage. So, 200 and below you feel like a victim. Guess what? That belief is going to keep you in that smaller, that lower vibration, this lower vibration, even though you might be thinking about it because the thoughts have a slow vibration. Because not even just the thoughts, but because you may be feeling that way as well and acting like that as well, then you're going to experience a direct reflection of that reality.

The key is being aware of the beliefs that may be keeping you in that little vibrational rage. It's becoming aware of your vibration. This is all about vibration. Most, you know, I used to make a lot of Law of Attraction videos, but then what happened is I realized that the key is not trying to attract something else into your life because those external things will never really make you happy. Everybody's still going to try, though. You know, it's Les Brown has a saying, it's like, you know, they tell you that, that love and or not love. They tell you that money and being rich isn’t going to make you happy. But everybody wants to try anyway. You know? The idea is that we may be tried anyways, but it knows that at the end of that that's not going to equal happiness.

This is why the key is actually raising your vibrational level of consciousness. When you raise your vibration level of consciousness, you have higher vibration that you are emitting, that you are being, and then the thoughts you have more potency. Then the emotion you feel is a higher vibration, and you enjoy the moment more, you're able to have more fun. I'll tell you right now that all nine to five job that I had seen a woman choose the days I went in and just having fun and tending to help other people add value to other people and the higher vibrations of that chart, you will see that of the high of that of joy, peace, love, and enlightenment. That is all about adding value, about being that value, about seeing everyone else's connected to you. The key to this is not attracting something from over there into your life.

The key is being aware of the energy underneath why you want what you want, and being aware of where your current vibration is. If you look at the scale, what you could see is where are you predominantly living in what vibrational emotions? We all have a gravity set point, and back in 2012, I went through a spiritual awakening. My vibrational set point went from like a three out of 10 to a seven out of 10 not saying I'm enlightened, not I'm only saying that my vibration in comparison to where it was to the pain of my past and the way I saw myself and feeling unworthy once I let go of that story, that meaning my vibration didn't raise, and then I started to feel completely different. I'll tell you right now that one of the best ways to raise up this vibrational scale of consciousness is to learn meditation.

When I learned meditation, my whole entire life changed, and to do that, all I did is I learned how to observe my thoughts. At first, I felt a lot of resistance. I learned meditation, and I was like, okay, I just, I knew about the law of attraction. I was like, don't want to think of negative thoughts, don't want to attract something negative. The more I thought of that, guess what? The more resistance I felt. But then what I did is I said, you know what? That's just a thought. There was more of a gap, more of a space. Then as I started to seek into it, I started to feel really good in my own body, starting to come more present in my body. I realized most of my life was scattering my energy into the future or the past. Then I started to be pro present in the moment, and I became aware that the way I was viewing my past was causing me to feel a lot of resistance, a lot of lower vibrational energy.

Even though I may be trying to attract more money in abundance in my life, I was going about it with this, this vibration underneath me, a feeling unworthy because of my painful password, like my ex stepmom and all that. You've probably seen or heard me talk about other videos on that. Because of that meaning, I was given my past; it was causing me to stay into lower vibrational energy. You want to know what really changed it to was redefining that meaning when I began to see that the pain of my ex stepmom who was physically, mentally, verbally abusive between seven and 15 years old, 15 years old, my dad divorced her. Between that age, though, I was giving that such a meeting, even after my dad divorced her that I wasn't worthy. I was giving it like, why did this happen? Why did I have much of a childhood? Like, you know, my brother and I, many times we're just locked outside how to do work.

When you know, they weren't home, parents weren't home, or my stepmom and my dad weren't home and then my brother and I weren't allowed to watch TV or have friends, so we had to earn going to school activities who got in trouble? School activities got taken away. The question is, well, why? Why was I able to have that, that childhood and I felt a lot of resistance, but then I had a spiritual awakening in 2012 and it all, it just all made sense to me. A lot of that pressure happened. That pushed me then into going through a spiritual awakening, which then awakened my life purpose of helping other people go through their spiritual awakening, maybe helping give people in, you know, give information that I'm passionate about, helping other people to do that. Then it all made sense to me. I read, framed the meaning because the idea of having the abuse of stepmom as crazy as this sounds, is a neutral idea.

Some people that'll happen, and their life will go on a downward spiral. Some people that will happen and that will propel them in so many different ways of helping other people, helping other people to get out of that painful situation. It's one of the reasons I share it on a lot of my YouTube is I made a thousand videos. I know that some of them are repetitive. I get it. But the story I think helps wake people up that have also been through pain and I don't know, I don't know which videos I was saying. Do you know what I mean? But you don't want to attract your reality using your thoughts and like wanting these, these materialistic things. Nothing wrong with it. But what you really want to do is raise your vibrational level of consciousness. When you raise your vibrational level of consciousness, these things come easy. Or anyways, secret secretly city will increase in your life. You will feel more connected to yourself and other people. You will be in a higher vibration.

When you're in a low vibe state, and you attract, you try to attract things, it's coming from desperate energy, and you create a lot of resistance. If you're feeling shame, fear, and guilt, and you're trying to attract a relationship, guess what kind of relationship you'll most likely attract. You don't attract what you want or that what you think. You attract what you are. Even if you think I'm going to try and like the best person in the world, blah, blah, blah, blah. If you don't believe deep down, you're worthy of it, then guess what? It's not going to be able to perceive it. The key and the thing that I really want to motivate you to do is to raise your vibration. When you raise your vibration, you will then change your life. Everything will come easier. The more I focus less on trying to attract certain things in my life and just raising my own vibration, feeling gratitude, having fun.

Sometimes it about just has more fun. Joke around a little bit more. Cool. Do things with your friends. I don't know. Do you guys go on hot air balloon rides? Do that. Okay. If that's your excitement, then do it safely. Don't make your own and make a YouTube video about it or anything. I have a playlist that will raise your vibration. If you watch it, it's seven of my top videos on raising vibration. I'll go ahead and link it here. Listen to all those videos. It will completely change the way that you see raising your vibration process, and that'll help you learn more about that as well.


My name is Aaron Doughty and I help people expand their consciousness. My areas of interest for this blog include motivation, meditation, neuroscience and enlightenment. The purpose of aarondoughty.com is to inspire change to those who want to experience more in life. I will openly and passionately share the tools, resources and processes that have made a difference in the quality of my life to help you do the same in yours. I’ve always believed that finding ways to add value to other peoples lives is the fastest route to both happiness and fulfillment and this is my genuine intention.